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Got a letter from the "Fat-Phobic" clinic

I really thought it was going to be an apology or something.  (My confession, I never got around to sending my hate mail, all I did was write a bad review on google Embarrassed)  I was not so lucky.  It was a letter telling me the Fat Phobic POS Dr is leaving.  I don't know if he is leaving on his own or not.  I don't really care, I am so happy.  This pushed me to actually write my letter.

Now, for your reading pleasure, my letter.  (tell me what you think!  I haven't printed/mailed it yet, so changes can be made.  The X is the clinic's name)

After receiving a letter stating Dr. O will be leaving X I felt it pertinent to respond. I want to commend this decision, whether it was his or not. After my initial appointment with Dr. O I was convinced to never again seek help/advice from , I made this known to all my family, friends and clients. Knowing Dr. O will no longer be practicing with X gives me a little more incentive to recommend X, as our experience with Dr.  W was exceptional. Dr. O came highly recommended to me. You can imagine my surprise when my appointment with him was not spent talking about fertility, but rather my weight. I am a well educated lady, I am well aware of my weight and the issues it can present with my fertility. I felt when contacting X I would meet with a Doctor who would listen to my concerns and goals while together creating a plan to achieve those goals while also addressing my concerns. I would like to take a moment to comment Dr. W on his bed side manner. My husband went to Dr. W before my appointment with Dr. O. After such a great experience with Dr. W I had nothing but the highest expectations for my appointment. When a couple is to the point of contacting your office, they are facing infertility. To most infertility is just a word, to the rest of us it is nothing short of heart breaking. Sincerely, Rawr
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  • I think it's wonderful, RAWR!!  If I were you, I would definitely send it.

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  • Good for you!!!  Definitely send it ~ the way you were treated was inexcusable!
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  • I think its perfect hun! You should definitely send it and ((HUGS)) again for all the crap "Dr. O" said to you!

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  • I would definitely send the letter. Glad to hear that dr is no longer at the clinic.

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  • It sounds perfect!

    I think I missed your post about Dr W. Embarrassed Are you going with this clinic under W, or seeking a new clinic?


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  • imagedamabo80:

    It sounds perfect!

    I think I missed your post about Dr W. Embarrassed Are you going with this clinic under W, or seeking a new clinic?

    Dr. W is the urologist DH saw.  I am still seeking a new clinic, but will probably wait until after the holidays before I move forward.  I might try a different Dr. at the same clinic, I'm just not sure yet.

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  • Definitely send the letter!  Your voice needs to be heard! *hugs*
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  • imageRawr08:
    imagedamabo80:

    It sounds perfect!

    I think I missed your post about Dr W. Embarrassed Are you going with this clinic under W, or seeking a new clinic?

    Dr. W is the urologist DH saw.  I am still seeking a new clinic, but will probably wait until after the holidays before I move forward.  I might try a different Dr. at the same clinic, I'm just not sure yet.

    FWIW, I did find vastly different drs within the same RE clinic (my first one). However, at the office closest to me, the Dr who didn't let me ask questions was the only Dr, and I didn't want to add another 30 min drive to go to the main clinic to see the other Dr. So, I switched practices.


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  • I think it sounds great..I still cannot believe that this Dr. would still even be in practice with being so rude.
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