TTC After a Loss

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Good morning ladies.  I'd like to join in if I could please!  I had a missed miscarriage in my first cycle of TTC #2.  My D&C was on Sept.30th and my follow-up with OB/GYN is this Thursday.  Not a day goes by that I don't think about having that baby in our lives or what he/she would have looked like.  There is still so much sadness in me but each day is a day toward our future.  My last day of bleeding/spotting was this past Saturday.  This gives me hope into this cycle and wishing that AF comes soon since the cycle after that is when we can TTC again.  I'm actually looking forward to it.  We'll never forget our loss but look forward to having DC#2 in our lives.  It's such a thin line...there's worry, guilt and confusion when it comes to TTCAL for me.  But our wanting another child in our family to love is out-weighing these feelings, and I think that focusing on the future and getting pregnant again is helping me, personally.  I look forward to giving and receiving the support and comfort that I've seen here so far.  It seems like a great group to be in.  I just want to extend my condolences for your losses and look forward to healthy and successful pregnancies for us all! Smile

Lilypie - (dLe1)

 

      ***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.

       We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***

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  • Very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.   I wish you the best in your journey & hope your stay here is a short one.

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  • Sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.  It's noce being able to come somewhere where people understand how you feel.  Sounds like you have a positive outlook.  That's really great and it will come in handy on your rough days. 
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    Welcome to the board and I am so sorry for your loss. My desire to have a child definitely outweighs the fear of TTCAL, and I think that's really important. I hope you can find as much comfort and support here as I have.

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    As always shmell took said exactly what I was thinking.

    Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your loss.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board, I hope you don't have to be here very long!!
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  • Love your optimism! I've very sorry for your loss and I hope your stay here is short and sweet.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Hoping that your next pregnancy is a healthy one.  ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find the comfort and support you need here. Welcome.
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.  I hope your stay here is short and sweet.
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  • Sorry for your loss :( Hope your stay is short and sweet!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find as much comfort here as I have, and that you don't have to stick around too long.
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