TTC After a Loss

Well, this day sucks

I have been having nausea since my m/c and today was the first day it hasn't hit me.  I was a happy camper about that until I decided to end all the pregnancy questions and tell the FB world that I'm not pregnant anymore.  I never would have had to do this if I hadn't announced my pregnancy the day before I m/c.  Next time I better go with my gut feelings and keep my big mouth shut.  Anyway, I felt I had to announce the my loss because people have been texting me and sending me messages on FB about my pregnancy left and right and I am tired of it so I did one mass announcement and asked them not to comment on it. 

With regards to FB, I have been in hiding from it and this is the first time I've been on since the m/c.  I don't really care to see and read about all these pregnant people or about anyone period.  Well, right after I post that I am no longer expecting my SIL posts about her pregnancy symptoms.  I wanted to slap the crap out of her for that.  I still do. 

Next on the list, I paid my bills and noticed that there was $4000 worth of unauthorized balance transfers on one of my credit card accounts.  UGH!

Oh AND my husband's job is sh*tty and his paycheck totally blew because they told him not to come in a few days this past pay period.  No work = no money.  Top Ramen and hot dogs will be on the menu for awhile. 

That's my awesome day turned crappy.  It's only 11am so who knows what'll happen 12 hours or so.

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  • Oh no I sure do hope your day gets a little better. I have'nt made the announcement on FB yet :( Don't know if  I ever will either, I just can't bear to do it, I also have been avoiding FB like the plague!!!

    Paradise  hurry up run and take a vacation lol

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  • ((BIG HUGS))  I hope your day starts getting better.
    "Even miracles take a little time" Our little pumpkin is here!! Dominick William arrived 2 weeks early on September 30, 2012! 8 lbs 2 oz and 20 inches. For you I've waited all these years.
  • FB is evil.  I really wasn't polanning on saying anything there but I can't handle a ton more text messages asking about my pregnancy for the next few months.  I was telling people one by one as they asked me. 

    I am going to go home and have the rest of that Peche Lambic in my fridge after work.

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  • Hugs! Sorry you're having a bad day. We announced to close family and friends only, thankfully, after our successful u/s and then m/c a week later. I told DH that next time around we weren't telling anyone at all until after 14 weeks, and even then, I'm going to be paranoid after that!
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    Hugs! Sorry you're having a bad day. We announced to close family and friends only, thankfully, after our successful u/s and then m/c a week later. I told DH that next time around we weren't telling anyone at all until after 14 weeks, and even then, I'm going to be paranoid after that!

    I pretty much am thinking the same thing.  My original plan was to wait until November to announce it but I got excited and did exactly what I said I wouldn't do.  That won't happen again. 

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  • Sounds like a terrible start of the day...hoping the rest of the day was nicer.

    I don't have facebook ::gasp:: and I really think it is helping me with my sanity. It is so hard hearing about pregnant ppl IRL that I could never receive updates from anyone else!

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