I'm just so frustrated...

M&MBride0506

Why is it that when we had to pay for the IVF, we dipped into our savings, just about depleting them, saved and scrimped and now that we need just a quarter of what we had to save for the IVF, for the FET, it seems impossible.  I know, we will get it, the same way by scrimping and saving but it feels like it's gonna take much longer. 

I wanted to do an FET before the holiday and I don't think that that's gonna happen.  And with the holidays coming, it's really depressing me. I just want to be able to enjoy the holidays again.  

Sorry for the Debbie Downer post and there really is no point to this post...I'm just feeling pretty sh!tty today.... Thanks for reading..

Faith722

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. This is the main reason we've had about a 6 month break b/w each IVF. Being OOP really sucks! I'm in the same boat -- hoping we can cycle in Nov -- but with holidays coming, money is always more tight.

DeputiesWife

I am so sorry you are dealing with this. 

::hugs:: 

Ginger71

(((hugs))) It sucks that money has to be a roadblock for anyone to become parents. I'm sorry,sweetie.

jlcrane78

I'm feeling this pain today too.  Now that they're calling this pregnancy a c/p, I am trying to figure out how to fund the add ons for our 3rd try.  ICSI and anesthesia are not covered, so I am looking at an additional $3,000 or so.  And we just bought a house thinking this last cycle was a shoo-in to work.  Go figure.  We need a money tree.

M&MBride0506

jlcrane78:

I'm feeling this pain today too.  Now that they're calling this pregnancy a c/p, I am trying to figure out how to fund the add ons for our 3rd try.  ICSI and anesthesia are not covered, so I am looking at an additional $3,000 or so.  And we just bought a house thinking this last cycle was a shoo-in to work.  Go figure.  We need a money tree.

I'm so sorry sweetie...IF is doing quite a number on us...But people keeping saying that we are strong...I'm waiting for this so-called strength...