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and to add insult to injury

the hospital never faxed it to my dr.

i had to call them and have them track down results (my nurse was doing the same) and was on hold while nurse was getting fax and then got to hear the fu*cking news


Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II

Re: and to add insult to injury

  • WTF. This is important stuff here. You'd think they would be a little sensitive.
  • What a bunch of @$$hats. I'm so sorry Worms.
    TTC 12/2009
    Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
    IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
    IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
    E & C Born 10/19/2012
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • That's terrible.  I'm so sorry, hon.  ((HUGE HUGS))

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    ~SAIF/PAIF/Everyone Welcome~ 

    Me= 37 and DH = 41 

    Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)

    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

  • Angry
    After 5 years of TTC, 3 IUIs, 5 IVFs, 2 FETs, multiple losses and an adoption that wasn
  • That just sucks :-( 
    Mini Monty's - 11 months

  • stupid fluckers.
    Mommies to 5 fur babies!
    TTC#1 since 2004
    4 cycles @ home with known donor - BFN
    RE un-medicated IUI cycles # 1-7= BFN
    NEW RE Clomid 50mg/ Ovidrel/ IUI #8 BFN
    Took long break
    Nov 2009 - Clomid 50mg/ Ovidrel/IUI #9 = BFP
    Beta 12/4 - 10...Beta #2 12/7- 28 Beta #3 12/9 - 80!
    1st sonogram 12/28 - slow hb and growth
    m/c 1/1/2010 Courtland 8w0d
    Nov 2010 cycle cancelled - polyp removal/hysteroscopy
    April 4 2011 - IUI #10 BFFN
    July 5, 2011 - #11 BFFN AMH .62 Boo
  • That's horrible! Ugh, why can't this crap be easier?
    IVF #3 = Feb 2012
    beta#1 3/21 (14dp3dt)=413, beta#2 3/23 (16dp3dt)=785, u/s 4/11
    EDD 11/25/12
    **SAIFW** Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Idiots!


    TTC since 6/2006, IFVet

    My sweet beautiful girls born at 30 weeks 5 days do to pre-e

    2 lbs 11oz, 14in & 2lbs 14oz 16in

  • image Edwina.McDunnough:
    WTF. This is important stuff here. You'd think they would be a little sensitive.
    Seriously! Those jack*sses.
    Lucky SAHM to Grace


    2.5 years, 3 IUIs, 2 IVFs, and 1 FET


  • I am so sorry, sweetie. It's so *** unfair. 
    IVF# 3 brought us our miracle

  • Fcuk. I have no other words. I am more upset about this than my own BFN. <3 you and I'm here for you.

    Super Angry at those A-holes for losing the b/w.

    DX AMA + MFI

    After almost 5 years, 7 fresh IVF cycles and a few losses along the way, we are excited to move on to domestic infant adoption!

    [url=""]My IVF Blog[/url]

    [url=""]My Adoption Journey[/url]
  • image jessican08:
    What a bunch of @$$hats. I'm so sorry Worms.

    my thoughts exactly.

    TTC since June 2009
    DX: MFI June 2010 & DOR Sept 2011
    Various forms of medicated cycles since June 2010
    IVF #1 tentatively scheduled for 2013
    Doing acupuncture and focus on weight loss in the meantime

    S/PAIF welcome


  • i am so sorry they dragged it out for you hun, and even more sorry it was a BFN. Sending you tons of (((hugs))).
    my blog

    SAIF Always Welcome

    7 rounds of Clomid,

    1 round of Gonal F,

    4 IUIs,

    and 65 pounds lost and counting all resulting in BFNs

    March 2011 IVF#1 225iu Gonal F, 75iu Menopur= 4 eggs retrieved, 1 fertilized,
    3dt of The Champ = BFN

    June 2011 IVF#2 520iu Gonal F, 75iu Menopur =
    10 eggs retrieved, 4 fertilized, 5dt of 2 blasts = BFN

    Jan. 2012 IVF #3 675iu Gonal F, 75iu Menopur, 30mg Lovenox, steroids=

    11 eggs retrieved, 4 fertilized, 5dt of 2 beautiful blasts=

    BFP!!!! Beta #1 = 102, Beta #2 = 285 Beta #3 = 1805

    1st u/s = One Jelly Bean, HR 128!

  • :( times a million?
    DS born 7.30.11
  • I'm so sorry about the whole thing... and how it was handled.  This process should be as easy on you guys as possible...  ((HUGS))
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism, a ton of IVF... finally it worked => a rough pregnancy => my sweet, sweet son born at 29 weeks 1 day Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • This whole thing sucks.  Hate this sweetie.
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Oh Worms, I am so sorry for all this. You deserve so much more! I am so sorry.


    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
  • I am sorry worms! I was hoping to get on here and see your BFP. Soon, your time will come! HUGS!
    Diagnosis: MFI and Egg Quality Issues IVF#1-October-BFN ER-16 eggs, 8 mature, 7 fertilized, 2transferred and no frozen IVF#2- March-Beta 3/19 ER- 12 eggs, 8 mature, 7 fertilized, 2 transferred and 1 frozen-BFN. IVF#3 July ER-19 eggs, 13 mature, 10 fertilized...waiting til Day 5 to PGD. PGD results-4 out of 5 embryos are normal and will be banked. IVF#4 Sept 11' 22 eggs, 16 mature, 15 fertilized...waiting til Day 5 to PGD. Total normal embryos banked, quality varies: FET-Nov 11'-BFP Beta #1: 156, Beta #2: 489 First u/s revealed TWINS!! 2nd u/s= 2 beautiful heartbeats! 12/17 Lost one of the twins :( BabyFruit Ticker
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