I'm hoping to get some advice, or at least encouragement that this will pass. My girls will be 18 months next week. They have very opposite personalities - E is very outgoing and active, while A is more reserved. A had stranger anxiety before she was a year old and grew out of it. Then it came back with a vengeance in the past few months (it's kind of a mix of stranger/separation anxiety).
I'm a SAHM, but try to get them out and have them socialize with other kids. I have playdates twice a week with other moms. Once a week, we are in a park district class. Whenever I take them to the store, A freaks out to the point where I almost don't want to take her out in public anymore. She screams, cries, arches her back, etc. I took her to Target a month ago and she did this during the entire shopping trip. If I were to carry her, she'd be fine. I tried this out once, but then ended up with back pain after (I just had back surgery in Feb). At the park district class, A clings to me and will not leave my lap. If I even adjust how I'm sitting, she starts to cry like I'm going to leave her. A will even cry when she sees the moms we have playdates with, even though she sees them every week. However, she's completely fine around my parents who she sees once a week.
Is there anything I can do to improve the situation? Does this sound a bit extreme for her age? Anyone else go through this and did it just pass eventually? Thank you for any advice - this is rough!
Re: Severe stranger anxiety (18 months)
Thanks for your reply. I leave them with my parents for a few hours a week, but since she knows them, A has no issues. The funny thing is I'll tell her I'm leaving and she doesn't even care or notice I'm gone. I like the idea of finding a gym where I can leave them for a short period of time - I may have to look into that!