FFFC- Let's hear them!

lurkylulu2

I don't have one (yet).

SBma

I like KFC mashed potatoes.  They don't even remotely compare to homemade or my mom's, but they'll do in a pinch.

sugarfingers

Not flameworthy but confession:  I was pronouncing Pinterest, PIN-TER-REST. I couldn't figure out what the word meant. Then I asked my DH how he would pronounce it and he said it correctly. Ah, that actually makes sense!

FFFC:  It seems like having anxiety has become the BOTB fad and everyone has it now. 

mrsmacias2008

I get irritated when people all of a sudden make their blogs private. I am sure there's a very good reason (crazies) but it's like hey...what happened next? lol

 

weelass24

Not having DH home at night is exhausting, but he was home last night and I almost shanked him.  He was in the way, left shitt on the table, left the sink dirty and did nothing to help prepare for daycare today.

This makes me a total asswipe because he has been working 2 jobs all week and is totally exhausted.  He went to bed at 8:30 last night.  He totally deserves to leave things a little messy but at the time I was really annoyed.

You can totally flame me for this since I deserve it.

mrsmacias2008

weelass24:

Not having DH home at night is exhausting, but he was home last night and I almost shanked him.  He was in the way, left shitt on the table, left the sink dirty and did nothing to help prepare for daycare today.

This makes me a total asswipe because he has been working 2 jobs all week and is totally exhausted.  He went to bed at 8:30 last night.  He totally deserves to leave things a little messy but at the time I was really annoyed.

You can totally flame me for this since I deserve it.

ugh, what a meanie you are! j/k Seriously, I feel the same way. DH isn't working two jobs but I know he's exhausted from the work and long hours. But still...help me out a little more.

panda10

I hate people who show up 10 minutes late for a meeting that we have every.freaking.week. 

Since becoming pregnant, I have no desire to be at work, to work with the people I work with or be productive. I've always had a love/hate relationship with my job and co-workers, but the last month, I've totally checked out. But eh, no one has caught on yet.

lurkylulu2

weelass24:

Not having DH home at night is exhausting, but he was home last night and I almost shanked him.  He was in the way, left shitt on the table, left the sink dirty and did nothing to help prepare for daycare today.

This makes me a total asswipe because he has been working 2 jobs all week and is totally exhausted.  He went to bed at 8:30 last night.  He totally deserves to leave things a little messy but at the time I was really annoyed.

You can totally flame me for this since I deserve it.

I'll flame you if you flame me. I get really piissed when DH leaves dirty dishes in the sink. And I never, ever do the dishes.

krate24

I think it's stupid that I have to wait three months after my m/c to try again because it was so early.  And I know that other doctors have said three months wasn't necessary.  I this AF should come this weekend and I want to try after that.  But this is all probably a moot point anyway, because even though right when I started bleeding DH said we could try again, now he's back to thinking he's one and done.  Which makes me feel even worse because if my fvckin' body actually worked, then we'd have at least two kids by now, possibly three based on the amount of time I've been pg.

I think there was a FFFC somewhere in there.

mommy0411

I really hate when people who don't really know my son tell me I should let him cry it out because he wakes up a couple of  times a night. He is only 5 months old and he wakes up starving after 5 hours. I am going to feed my kid not let him cry for an hour! 

 

mrsmacias2008

lurkylulu2:

weelass24:

Not having DH home at night is exhausting, but he was home last night and I almost shanked him.  He was in the way, left shitt on the table, left the sink dirty and did nothing to help prepare for daycare today.

This makes me a total asswipe because he has been working 2 jobs all week and is totally exhausted.  He went to bed at 8:30 last night.  He totally deserves to leave things a little messy but at the time I was really annoyed.

You can totally flame me for this since I deserve it.

I'll flame you if you flame me. I get really piissed when DH leaves dirty dishes in the sink. And I never, ever do the dishes.

::gasp::

Eff...I am always doing the effin dishes. Freakin bottles. And the place we looked at last night didn't have a dishwasher, but one can be put in it. DH was like, we don't need one honey...you are always washing them anyway. ::nut punch::

KtB0605

The girl I wrote this post about found out that I did on Tuesday night.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/58483549.aspx

She had a friend that posted a derogatory joke about Asian last names and I ended up commenting on her status with something along the lines of "I guess it's cool to make fun of murder/suicide and Asian last names?"

Then shiit hit the fan...In a really dramatic "hi, we're still in middle school" type of way. I totally fed into it because the girl that wrote the original status found the post on here and asked me if I was pregnant. Then proceeded to tell me if I couldn't take a joke that I wasn't "mature" enough to have a baby. 

I went a little BSC on her and told her that I wasn't pregnant, but I posted on TB because I've had two losses, that she was a total ignorant biitch, yada yada. It certainly was not my finest moment. She (obviously) un-friended me.

I don't feel bad about not being friends with her, I just feel bad about acting like I was 13 on a social networking site. 

ellephunt

Alright I'll say it- I cried at Selfie's Gender Reveal video. 

Kristinmo

I don't like being pregnant.  This is flamable because I have (relatively) easy pregnancies.  I just want the baby, not the process.

andrew's wifey

I'm trying for the second time to get into reading the book Outlander, and I can't.  I find it sooooooo boring.  Like a really old British film or something.  

lurkylulu2

ellephunt:

Alright I'll say it- I cried at Selfie's Gender Reveal video. 

I will admit that I have a selfie weight complex when it comes to pregnancy. I don't want to gain 20 pounds. 15 is my ideal.

mrsadamc 05

I am really not a happy pregnant lady right now.  

If I had felt like this with Katie I would have been 1 and done.  

All I want to do is puke all.day.long.  But then when I do I don't feel any better.  In fact, I usually feel worse.  

I have a prescription for Zofran waiting for me at the pharmacy and I am praying that it works.  

Also, I have not been drinking anywhere close to the amount of water I should be (because it makes me want to puke) and I haven't taken my prenatals in at least a week (also due to the vomiting).   

greenclown

This is more of a vent, but whatever. My mother has been here for 24 hours and I'm ready to send her home. She's like a freaking child and is so clueless about everything (like how to be nurturing, how to not be insane, etc). She has been texting with her boyfriend nonstop and I'm ready to throw her phone into the street. She's still married btw (separated, but still - she's on her 2nd boyfriend already and already lived with the first one). Oh, and she asked yesterday if TLF likes DH. Huh? First of all, he likes everyone, and second of all, why wouldn't he like him? He's his father. He adores him and lights up when sees him.

BostonGayGal

sugarfingers:

Not flameworthy but confession:  I was pronouncing Pinterest, PIN-TER-REST. I couldn't figure out what the word meant. Then I asked my DH how he would pronounce it and he said it correctly. Ah, that actually makes sense!

Um, how is it pronounced? My confession is that I don't know. 

Emie28

I have one that is actually quite flameworthy.

When we went to Mexico in June, Linc flew as a lap baby. We didn't take the car seat b/c our travel provider said they could arrange for transport to have one with them.  I called to double check the request was in the day before we left, but then we get to Mexico, and wouldn't you know it: no car seat. I asked the driver and he acted like he had no idea what I was talking about and pretty much said I was S.O.L. So I ended up putting him in his carrier and buckling him in with me.

I was a nervous wreck the entire way. 

KtB0605

BostonGayGal:

sugarfingers:

Not flameworthy but confession:  I was pronouncing Pinterest, PIN-TER-REST. I couldn't figure out what the word meant. Then I asked my DH how he would pronounce it and he said it correctly. Ah, that actually makes sense!

Um, how is it pronounced? My confession is that I don't know. 

I say it Pin-ter-rest. But I'm guessing it could be pronounced Pin-trest.  

angiegail78

mrsadamc 05:

I am really not a happy pregnant lady right now.  

If I had felt like this with Katie I would have been 1 and done.  

All I want to do is puke all.day.long.  But then when I do I don't feel any better.  In fact, I usually feel worse.  

I have a prescription for Zofran waiting for me at the pharmacy and I am praying that it works.  

Also, I have not been drinking anywhere close to the amount of water I should be (because it makes me want to puke) and I haven't taken my prenatals in at least a week (also due to the vomiting).   

I didn't have puking, but I did have the all day queasiness with both boys and I had issues with the prenatals and water.  I couldn't really drink anything without carbonation so I drank mineral water, and I switched to Flintstones chewables.  Hope the Zofran works for you!

sugarfingers

BostonGayGal:

sugarfingers:

Not flameworthy but confession:  I was pronouncing Pinterest, PIN-TER-REST. I couldn't figure out what the word meant. Then I asked my DH how he would pronounce it and he said it correctly. Ah, that actually makes sense!

Um, how is it pronounced? My confession is that I don't know. 

I believe like "interest" but with a P.  

ETA: I'm glad I'm wasn't the only one! :-) 

lurkylulu2

angiegail78:

mrsadamc 05:

I am really not a happy pregnant lady right now.  

If I had felt like this with Katie I would have been 1 and done.  

All I want to do is puke all.day.long.  But then when I do I don't feel any better.  In fact, I usually feel worse.  

I have a prescription for Zofran waiting for me at the pharmacy and I am praying that it works.  

Also, I have not been drinking anywhere close to the amount of water I should be (because it makes me want to puke) and I haven't taken my prenatals in at least a week (also due to the vomiting).   

I didn't have puking, but I did have the all day queasiness with both boys and I had issues with the prenatals and water.  I couldn't really drink anything without carbonation so I drank mineral water, and I switched to Flintstones chewables.  Hope the Zofran works for you!

Another vote for the chewable PVs here.

lurkylulu2

sugarfingers:

BostonGayGal:

sugarfingers:

Not flameworthy but confession:  I was pronouncing Pinterest, PIN-TER-REST. I couldn't figure out what the word meant. Then I asked my DH how he would pronounce it and he said it correctly. Ah, that actually makes sense!

Um, how is it pronounced? My confession is that I don't know. 

I believe like "interest" but with a P.  

I say pin-er-est. I don't know why. lol

DrBeepersWife

For some reason I can't manage to take my prenatals every day.  I forgot an entire week last week. 

mrsadamc 05

lurkylulu2:

angiegail78:

mrsadamc 05:

I am really not a happy pregnant lady right now.  

If I had felt like this with Katie I would have been 1 and done.  

All I want to do is puke all.day.long.  But then when I do I don't feel any better.  In fact, I usually feel worse.  

I have a prescription for Zofran waiting for me at the pharmacy and I am praying that it works.  

Also, I have not been drinking anywhere close to the amount of water I should be (because it makes me want to puke) and I haven't taken my prenatals in at least a week (also due to the vomiting).   

I didn't have puking, but I did have the all day queasiness with both boys and I had issues with the prenatals and water.  I couldn't really drink anything without carbonation so I drank mineral water, and I switched to Flintstones chewables.  Hope the Zofran works for you!

Another vote for the chewable PVs here.

I've already had to ditch the Flintstone chewables and am on to gummies and it's still bad.  I'm really hoping Zofran helps.   

danlexi04

I'm only 14w and I feel and look 6+ months pregnant. It's fvcking ridiculous. I feel so stupid for being uncomfortable this early because I know I KNOW how much worse it gets. I read posts about women working out and all I want to do is sit on my couch and eat. I feel like a total schlep. And I'm pretty sure I waddled last night.

MrsVonKikabee

I am already sick to death of the drama surrounding my SIL's bridal shower. Which isn't until April. Shoot me now.

 

Edit: dumb typo

weelass24

sugarfingers:

FFFC:  It seems like having anxiety has become the BOTB fad and everyone has it now. 

Yes, clearly that is my problem.  I'm doing it becuase is is popular.

hippotree

sugarfingers:

FFFC:  It seems like having anxiety has become the BOTB fad and everyone has it now. 

Yes, I totally decided to have intrusive, graphic thoughts of horrible things happening to my kids or of me dying in front of them because all the cool kids are doing it.

Or maybe it's a more common problem than you knew and this has been a good place for those of us who felt scared and alone to find some support.

You're an ass. 

PubStar09

weelass24:

sugarfingers:

FFFC:  It seems like having anxiety has become the BOTB fad and everyone has it now. 

Yes, clearly that is my problem.  I'm doing it becuase is is popular.

I hope the "anxiety is a fad" comment wasn't because of my post yesterday. I don't have a near panic attack when driving in the rain because I want to be a cool kid. Trust me.  

weelass24

hippotree:

sugarfingers:

FFFC:  It seems like having anxiety has become the BOTB fad and everyone has it now. 

Yes, I totally decided to have intrusive, graphic thoughts of horrible things happening to my kids or of me dying in front of them because all the cool kids are doing it.

Or maybe it's a more common problem than you knew and this has been a good place for those of us who felt scared and alone to find some support.

You're an ass. 

And like we don't feel guilty and awful enough as it is, someone had to make a comment like that. 

joanithegreat

DH expects me to be super excited about his cousin being pregnant (the one who thought her water broke a couple days ago- it didn't).  I am somewhat excited, but I am mostly annoyed/jealous.  This cousin and her BF are barely making ends meet, their parents have bought all of the big ticket items for the baby. 

They don't have a car and it's pretty clear that they expect DH to drive them to the hospital when she goes into labor.  In fact they constantly rely on DH or me for rides to Drs appointments etc.  What are they going to do if DH is unavailable?  I know they probably won't have money for a cab, so their only other option is the bus or calling an ambulance.

I constantly find myself thinking, why them and why not me?  Why do they get a baby that they can barely afford?  I don't like feeling like this but I can't seem to stop it either.

KtB0605

weelass24:

hippotree:

sugarfingers:

FFFC:  It seems like having anxiety has become the BOTB fad and everyone has it now. 

Yes, I totally decided to have intrusive, graphic thoughts of horrible things happening to my kids or of me dying in front of them because all the cool kids are doing it.

Or maybe it's a more common problem than you knew and this has been a good place for those of us who felt scared and alone to find some support.

You're an ass. 

And like we don't feel guilty and awful enough as it is, someone had to make a comment like that. 

sugarfingers, that was douchey. You obviously have no idea what anxiety is.  

ohashlet

DC2London:

Since DH is starting a new job he won't have enough leave accrued for a marathon two-week tour of the family members at Christmas time.  I am secretly thrilled about this.  Spending Christmas in my own home with just my immediate family?  Yes please.  But the extended families haven't seen Jack since April :-/

Pssssssst, I'll be in VA for Christmas.

robinsokj

ohashlet:

DC2London:

Since DH is starting a new job he won't have enough leave accrued for a marathon two-week tour of the family members at Christmas time.  I am secretly thrilled about this.  Spending Christmas in my own home with just my immediate family?  Yes please.  But the extended families haven't seen Jack since April :-/

Pssssssst, I'll be in VA for Christmas.

Whereabout

kittybits21

lurkylulu2:

weelass24:

Not having DH home at night is exhausting, but he was home last night and I almost shanked him.  He was in the way, left shitt on the table, left the sink dirty and did nothing to help prepare for daycare today.

This makes me a total asswipe because he has been working 2 jobs all week and is totally exhausted.  He went to bed at 8:30 last night.  He totally deserves to leave things a little messy but at the time I was really annoyed.

You can totally flame me for this since I deserve it.

I'll flame you if you flame me. I get really piissed when DH leaves dirty dishes in the sink. And I never, ever do the dishes.

this. totally. I want to yell at him every time that the dishwasher is two feet from the sink. and then I realize I sound like my mother, without having any of her super-cleaning habits...oops. guess I inherited the odd genes.

 

my fffc: I realized after being home for 5 days for the burrito's bday and party and after cleaning the whole house that I lost 3 pounds. now I want to quit work because I eat less and move more when I'm home. oh, and I MADE DINNER when I was off too! it was glorious. I miss it already.

hippotree

ohashlet:

DC2London:

Since DH is starting a new job he won't have enough leave accrued for a marathon two-week tour of the family members at Christmas time.  I am secretly thrilled about this.  Spending Christmas in my own home with just my immediate family?  Yes please.  But the extended families haven't seen Jack since April :-/

Pssssssst, I'll be in VA for Christmas.

Ooooh, and I have the week off between Christmas and New Year's.

ohashlet

I told work I'm not going back, and they countered with a possible work from home + 4/5 days a month in office. I'm overjoyed. No details yet, but the flammable part is I know that the income I make will be just like it was pre-baby -- my play money. I already have a list of things I'll save and buy for myself and I reall hope it happens.

A new handbag, a trainer, tickets to visit friends, the 35mm f/1.4...

sevans1975

joanithegreat:

DH expects me to be super excited about his cousin being pregnant (the one who thought her water broke a couple days ago- it didn't).  I am somewhat excited, but I am mostly annoyed/jealous.  This cousin and her BF are barely making ends meet, their parents have bought all of the big ticket items for the baby. 

They don't have a car and it's pretty clear that they expect DH to drive them to the hospital when she goes into labor.  In fact they constantly rely on DH or me for rides to Drs appointments etc.  What are they going to do if DH is unavailable?  I know they probably won't have money for a cab, so their only other option is the bus or calling an ambulance.

I constantly find myself thinking, why them and why not me?  Why do they get a baby that they can barely afford?  I don't like feeling like this but I can't seem to stop it either.

I know how you feel.  Before I was pregnant, I had 1 m/c and nothing nothing nothing for 2 years while SIL so easily got pregnant.  When I found out they were having their 2nd child, my reaction was a very bland "Oh.  Well good for them."  About 30 seconds later I ran for the bathroom and ugly cried out a LOT of pent-up jealousy and I felt so completely awful for feeling that way.  I hated that I couldn't just instantly feel happy for them. 
They now have 3 kids...great kids...but I still wonder how they make ends meet and I still will never forget how I reacted to the initial news of pregnancy #2.