We just completed another failed IUI cycle with injectibles. We are both coming to the conclusion that, after 2+ years of uncertainty, we just need to accept our fate and move on. In thinking this through, I realize there are a few short term benefits to ease the pain, if only a tiny bit:
I am looking forward to:
- taking migraine medication
- taking allergy medication before I rip my nose off
-going on the pill to manage my increasingly heavy periods
- enjoying a glass of wine after a sh!tty day ---- without thinking twice or feeling guilty
- downsizing my giant SUV for a more sensible sedan
- sleeping until a normal time/ not waking up at 5 a.m. to get-it-on with an ultrasound wand or turkey baster as per IUI procedure
- quitting my volunteer part-time gig as spouse in charge of dealing with our sh!tty insurance and all of the redtape
- spending our non-existent 2nd child's non-existent college fund on a ridiculously, stupidly nice watch. like, cartier nice. Hell, we will be done with full-time daycare payments in a mere 9 months. I could buy two watches and still come out on top.
Besides coping wiht the severe detour/rerouting that our lives are taking, the above list doesn't sound so bad
Re: getting ready to throw in the towel -- things to look forward to!
I'm not quiiiite to the point you are, but getting there. We had started the adoption process, and now my DH just got laid off so everything is up in the air. We are still TTC but have agreed to call it quits in January 2012 ( a year after my m/c, which was after 14 months TTC...will be over 2 years total at that time).
To be honest, I'm not even sure how to quit trying. It's like I'm on auto-pilot.
We totally have a babies-r-us in our attic and it just makes me upset everytime I see it (and my son's crib which he slept in until last week when he decided he was a "big boy"). I actually just listed the stupid thing on Craigslist, along with a few other things.
I'm glad you can see the positives. I'm still pretty much a bitter, weepy mess, but I hope someday I can come out on the other side of this nightmare.
---------Game Over---------
Moving on as a family of 3
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Ditto.
"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."
Miracle DD born 12.2005
TTC #2 since Dec 2008 w/ PCOS
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I am right there with you.
"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."