Told my sis today....

bio-oesch

So I had been thinking of telling my little sis (shes a very young 18) for a while now, she always tells me her secrets.
So I told her today when she came over. Not sure why, but it was pretty anticlimatic for me She was happy for me and excited, but I think i'm just feeling weird about it because we haven't found the hb on our at home doppler and we don't have our next appt until next Thursday.
Plus I think I feel weird because I want to tell my family and everyone else too, but we're waiting til sat.
Anyone else tell some people and not feel right?

melissabrodeur

I told only my immediate family and of course everyone else found out.  Not that I could hide it with all my MS.  It feels weird, definitely.  I am a worrier and a FTM (and my DR doesn't do US or doppler until 10 wks, which is this week - thank god!) and so concerned that something is wrong or going to go wrong and then I will have to explain it, ugh.  It sucks.  You are not alone.

ImThisBabysMom

We told right before 11 weeks and it felt ok. I'm not worried about something happening now (which is a small lie because there is always worry in my head). Don't worry about telling because you haven't heard the heart yet at home. I hear that can be tricky depending on how your uterus is positioned or how early you are. I told my best friend right away and I didn't think she would out me, but there was always a slight worry of an accident of her saying something she shouldn't before we told. But that never happened.

AmyJoy728

I've told my family and his family and gave the okay for extended family (gparents, aunts/uncles and cousins) to find out. As far as friends, I only tell people right after a doc appt so that I don't have any worries/weird feelings.

Tambcat

We told my sister and BIL at 7 weeks. They are the only people we've told. It was pretty exciting this time around, but when we told them w/ my last pregnancy, it felt anticlimatic too. I'm not sure why. I was kind of hesitant to tell them this time b/c of that, but I couldn't put it off any longer b/c we usually all hang out and drink together on the weekends.