Hi ladies! I'm in desperate need of advice. I just got my BFP Friday night, so that puts me at about 4 weeks. DFH is deploying in January and he won't be around for the birth. I know I'm not the only one who has ever gone through this, but any advice on how to not lose my head? I'm really upset DFH (probably DH soon!) won't be there when our first-born enters the world.