Sex Drive

krissywave

Has anyone noticed their sex drive increase or decreas?  I know for me I seem to want it all the time.  Dh dont seem to want to have it much.  But he has always been like that.  If I had it my way I would want it all the time. 

gisa886

This might sound bad, but I want to have sex just not with my husband. There isn't someone else I want to have sex with, he just is getting on my nerves for some reason and I don't even want him to kiss me at times much less have sex.

westrose

I am just so not interested. Poor DH! Now that it is the weekend, I am sure we will have it just so not into it. Oh well! 

ecn0002

totally don't even want touched....and all DH wants to do is feel me up, I feel disgusting!  He's been trying to plan sex for awhile now and I will honestly say I've been trying to avoid.  I do feel terrible and will have to give in at some point to make him happy. 

Heddarc

Absolutely 0 sex drive!  I throw a bone to DH about once a week but I could take it or leave it.  

gekeler6

It was mainly the same after the BFP, even through the m/s, I still had about the same sex drive.  Now in the last week it has increased!  I think I want it more than husband does right now!  Which is hard to believe!!

Jesse's Girl 10

I have absolutely zero sex drive but the doctor has told us not to have sex until after my 12 week check up so I'm dodging the bullet without having to feel too bad.

I'm hoping the second trimester will get me back to normal! 

Kaiene

I enjoy sex a lot more now, but lately I have been so tired that I haven't been initiating. I feel bad for H, because we used to have sex 3-4 times a week.

KFCupcake

Mine has been almost non existent, but it's there at times.  It's bumming the DH out a bit but I've reminded him it could be worse...MUCH worse lol.  Our friend says that the sex drive comes back in full force 2nd tri so he's got his eyes on that prize...and he'll probably think it comes back with a flip of a switch!

LaurynMarette

ecn0002:

totally don't even want touched....and all DH wants to do is feel me up, I feel disgusting!  He's been trying to plan sex for awhile now and I will honestly say I've been trying to avoid.  I do feel terrible and will have to give in at some point to make him happy. 

 

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FusionLMT

major increase! I had zero with my pregnancy with my son though. I think we did it once a month through that one. Hoping this (and other different symptoms) mean we are having a girl.

Sunshine+Luv

Heddarc:

Absolutely 0 sex drive!  I throw a bone to DH about once a week but I could take it or leave it.  

This! Exactly. And poor DH is all over me, he is usually the more horny one, but now with my boobs even bigger, every day is a tease to him. Haha,  I hope once the m/s goes away, I will want sex again. 

MsCat19

We're having the same amount as before pretty much, but twice now I've had the big O last the entire experience... that's NEVER happened to me before, and I must admit I hope it stays that way the whole pregnancy!

Monkeybabe

I don't feel any real urge to do it, but I'm usually glad he wanted it in the end.

adamstodrake

Sex drive, what's that?!?! Maybe in 2nd tri, but sure as heck have none right now.

jeffsjayme

Decrease here!  I miss my fertile part of my cycle when the hormones were flying!  This ain't that much fun!

mcfife09

mine is gone baby gone! 

Marie509

Mine is about the same -- but I've been so tired lately, that DH only gets it on the weekend.  lol.  He has noticed ((and sorry for the TMI)) that things are a lot tighter... and it's a lot more enjoyable for me too!  I'm hoping it stays this way.  lol.

devious1031

I've had a major decrease in sex drive since the very beginning of this pregnancy which is very different from my daughters where, from the get go, my drive was insatiable!  Now the only reason I'm glad DH is away is no sex, lol.

HannahO28

My drive is about the same, but I am SO TIRED at night that it just can't happen. So I've been initiating a lot more in the morning before work and in the afternoon. So it kind of seems like an increase, just because we're doing things differently, but really I think it's the same. 

katieh1017

Mine's decreased. I feel like I am about to puke all the time so the last thing I feel like doing is banging.