Most of the practices at St Peter's and RWJ are large. Therefore you deal with a lot of different doctors with lots of different philosophies. If you really want to stay in New Brunswick, I'd try Dr Kyle Beiter at St Peter's. He is fairly new to the hospital but came from the natural birth friendly St Vincent's in NYC (which closed). You might also want to try the midwives at Del Val Ob/Gyn who deliver at Princeton.
Re: Ob/midwife reqs?