Annoyed with DH

Lelo3

Anyone else's husbands less then great when it comes to appointments? My husband hasn't been to one yet. He has been gone hunting for this whole month then he will go again in October and then AGAIN hunting over Thanksgiving so all my appointments land on days he is gone including the 20 week gender appointment in November I'm highly annoyed that I'm doing these all with out him. Just had to vent for a minute because venting to him isn't going to change him not being here lol )

MsCat19

it's times like this i'm glad we're practically hermits... i leave the house for family and roller derby, he leaves for work and family.

countdowntolockdown

Boo:(  Can you switch your 20W appointment around his schedule?

I had to do that with the NT scan for next week to fit my DH's work schedule.

gisa886

I can understand not going to every single appointment, but voluntarily missing the anatomy scan is not ok.

Lelo3

countdowntolockdown:

Boo:(  Can you switch your 20W appointment around his schedule?

I had to do that with the NT scan for next week to fit my DH's work schedule.

This is what I'm going to try to do at least for the 20 Week appointment  maybe before he leaves hopefully 

dojo1

That sucks, I would feel like I was the only one doing the bonding, even though that's not necessarily the case.   If you're able to change your appointment to accommodate both of your schedules, do it - or force him to commit to the next appointment.  

photonbug

Lelo3:

countdowntolockdown:

Boo:(  Can you switch your 20W appointment around his schedule?

I had to do that with the NT scan for next week to fit my DH's work schedule.

This is what I'm going to try to do at least for the 20 Week appointment  maybe before he leaves hopefully 

or tell him that you won't tell him the sex unless he changes his plan.  Sorry you are going through that.   My FIL hunts every weekend.  We kept trying to get him over for dinner so we could tell him I'm preganant.  I finally had him over yesterday and told him. 

ScarlettDahlia

DH told me that if i want him to come with, I have to schedule my appointments for after he gets off work. So, I started to do that.

Hopefully, he'll be at the next one. I had to change it and it's a little earlier than I would have liked. But I told him yesterday that he has to be there.

I was kind of pissed that he couldn't go to the first appointment. Like, he made absolutely no effort to get off early that day. He hadn't approached his boss at all. I was livid and he didn't hear the end of it for a while. I mean, he did end up having to work overtime that day. So I would have understood had he called me on the day of and said "we're really swamped and I can't get away". I would have been upset, but I definitely would have understood.

NayNaysPlayPen

I would be very dissapointed as well. I guess its different for some guys than it is for women, they dont care as much to go to the appointments?

I hope you have a mom, or bestie, or someone who can join in on the special moments, especially finding out the sex!