DH strikes again NPR

ImThisBabysMom

Background info: we currently live in a smaller rental. The kitchen cabinets are so small and narrow that I have to stack things and organize stuff so it all fits......on to my rant.....

Why does DH always just shove stuff in there???? I've explained it to him before and we've been here like 2 years, he knows he just doesn't wanna do it. The plastic storage stuff is the worst. But its so easy to stack inside of each other by shape. So I'm putting dishes away and again, sh*t falls out at me because he did it again. That really ticks me off. I just shoved the stuff in there. I'm done fixing it just for him to destroy it when he gets one out or puts one away.

bio-oesch

I'm sorry DH cracks me up, he always puts the silverware all over the place whenever he happens to unload the dishwasher. I never say anything, i'm just happy for the help and it's not a huge deal.

 

I heard somewhere that if guys do stuff over and over after you have talked to them about it, it's not that they're doing it on purpose, but that they just don't *think* about it.

If I try to think of that and know he's not doing it to make me mad he just honestly doesn't think it through it helps me not get as mad.

ImThisBabysMom

I know I shouldn't be mad. It's not on purpose. It's just annoying! He is really great so if that's one flaw, then its not really a big deal.

bio-oesch

Oh no I totally get it, I was just sharing what helps me try to keep my cool! LOL

 

DragonflyBelle

bio-oesch:

I heard somewhere that if guys do stuff over and over after you have talked to them about it, it's not that they're doing it on purpose, but that they just don't *think* about it.

 

DH says they do that so they won't be expected to do it again. If they screw up bad enough, you'll ban them from doing it and they get their way.