I think I'm just super grumpy today (NT scan posts vent)

Alliebooberz

I don't know if maybe feeling super sick today is making me super grumpy...

But there have been about 100 NT scan posts.  And I generally still comment on them and everything... but really?  

"Are you getting the NT scan?"  Has been asked a lot of times.  

 

So 2nd + time moms  - are there any other tests that we get to look forward to that will be discussed ad nauseam ? 

 

/ grumpiness. 

GoldenGibson

I second your grumpiness about the NT scan posts and all other posts that are asked 1000x.

SheenaNash1

I agree! My one exception is when people post their u/s pics from them, those I love seeing and I think everyone deserves to have their moment to post that on here.

Can I add an NT scan vent?

It really makes me stabby when people say "I'm not getting the NT scan, it wouldn't impact what we do" or "We aren't getting it, no matter what this baby is loved" or some other crap along those lines. Ummm...I had no plans of getting an abortion (yes people, we can say that word we are adults) and I love my baby no matter what. Just because I choose to arm myself with as much knowledge as I can doesn't mean that the results would change my mind about anything or that I don't love my baby until I find out its healthy.

I'm not knocking anyone for not getting the scan, heck I almost didn't get it myself! But citing those things as reasons not to get one is kind of b/s to me.

 

sweet_nitenale

Alliebooberz:

I don't know if maybe feeling super sick today is making me super grumpy...

But there have been about 100 NT scan posts.  And I generally still comment on them and everything... but really?  

"Are you getting the NT scan?"  Has been asked a lot of times.  

 

So 2nd + time moms  - are there any other tests that we get to look forward to that will be discussed ad nauseam ? 

 

/ grumpiness. 

Hahaha! I think u just said what a lot are thinking!

kolaloo15

Last year with my first I don't remember more than one or two posts about NT scans! Wait till the glucose testing the board will become swamped again then exp. for the women that have to go onto take the 3 hr. test. Everything runs its course and if all else fails it gives you a good reason to pop over to other boards (check out the current birth month board and see all the birth stories) and see questions to come!  

mrs.gee

SheenaNash1:

It really makes me stabby when people say "I'm not getting the NT scan, it wouldn't impact what we do" or "We aren't getting it, no matter what this baby is loved" or some other crap along those lines. Ummm...I had no plans of getting an abortion (yes people, we can say that word we are adults) and I love my baby no matter what. Just because I choose to arm myself with as much knowledge as I can doesn't mean that the results would change my mind about anything or that I don't love my baby until I find out its healthy.

I'm not knocking anyone for not getting the scan, heck I almost didn't get it myself! But citing those things as reasons not to get one is kind of b/s to me.

THANK. YOU. These comments make it sound like those who choose to get the scan will drive directly to the abortion clinic if things aren't "perfect". They also don't seem to recognize the unfortunate and horrible reality that sometimes these scans reveal catastrophic issues with the baby - particularly possible if you haven't had an u/s to that point.

I cannot speak for others, but I think the "we'll deal with whatever we get" line of reasoning can get pretty thin if you find out the worst news: that your baby has passed or has a condition that will not be compatible with birth or life. For example, I had a friend who found out she'd had a missed m/c at 8w at the nuchal scan, with no prior indication anything was wrong. And there was another poster right on this board who learned her baby had no brain development. These stories are so sad, and of course rare, but they show there are many reasons to at least consider getting this test.

Sorry, I know this isn't meant to be a pro-NT scan thread necessarily, but I had to vent.

nah82

Alliebooberz:

 

 

So 2nd + time moms  - are there any other tests that we get to look forward to that will be discussed ad nauseam ? 

Yes, that would be the 1 hour GD test.

court1703

SheenaNash1:

I agree! My one exception is when people post their u/s pics from them, those I love seeing and I think everyone deserves to have their moment to post that on here.

Can I add an NT scan vent?

It really makes me stabby when people say "I'm not getting the NT scan, it wouldn't impact what we do" or "We aren't getting it, no matter what this baby is loved" or some other crap along those lines. Ummm...I had no plans of getting an abortion (yes people, we can say that word we are adults) and I love my baby no matter what. Just because I choose to arm myself with as much knowledge as I can doesn't mean that the results would change my mind about anything or that I don't love my baby until I find out its healthy.

I'm not knocking anyone for not getting the scan, heck I almost didn't get it myself! But citing those things as reasons not to get one is kind of b/s to me.

 

I just do it to see LO before 20 weeks. 

digwriter

kolaloo15:

Last year with my first I don't remember more than one or two posts about NT scans! Wait till the glucose testing the board will become swamped again then exp. for the women that have to go onto take the 3 hr. test. Everything runs its course and if all else fails it gives you a good reason to pop over to other boards (check out the current birth month board and see all the birth stories) and see questions to come!  

That sounded like an awesome idea, until about 5 minutes ago when I ended up reading about the scariest epidural experience and in-law nightmare that some poor mommy just had.

Irisheyes1247

Oh man, the flippin glucose test. And then GBS. It is a lot of rePetition, then the crowd thins and it gets a little better.

tash_rn

Agree!  Are we done beating a dead horse with the NT scan questions?  And when can I expect the glucose test posts to start and stop so I can avoid those altogether

TooExcitedForMarch25

Ok.

1. I hate conflict.

2. The bump message board is HUGE.  It is not always easy to keep up with all the posts.  And if there is a search feature for threads, I have yet to find it.

3. We are all pregnant women with many questions, and we should NEVER be afraid to ask.  No matter how absurd.  

4. If the thread title doesn't interest you, don't read it.  Let it be.  

nah82

tash_rn:

And when can I expect the glucose test posts to start and stop so I can avoid those altogether

The GD test is generally given between the 24th and 28th week.

SheenaNash1

TooExcitedForMarch25:

Ok.

1. I hate conflict.

2. The bump message board is HUGE.  It is not always easy to keep up with all the posts.  And if there is a search feature for threads, I have yet to find it.

3. We are all pregnant women with many questions, and we should NEVER be afraid to ask.  No matter how absurd.  

4. If the thread title doesn't interest you, don't read it.  Let it be.  

1. I don't think anyone is saying the questions that are being asked are "absurd", I think we are just saying that they have been posted a lot.

2. Google works as well, you can type in "NT scan The Bump" and I'm sure tons will come up. I haven't tried it, but I'm willing to bet it would work.

3. The same "if it doesn't interest you, don't read it" could be said about this thread as well. If people disagree then thats totally fine, but if the thread irks you, you can choose to move past it.

I'm not trying to be snarky, I'm just trying to point out that Allie has a much of a right to post that she's sick of NT posts as you do to post the 100th NT scan post. It does go both ways. All of that being said, I'm sure no one if going to get flamed for posting something about an NT scan on here. We all get along pretty well and I'm sure it will stay that way.

 

TooExcitedForMarch25

Naw, you're right.  I should rephrase my post.  

It would be nice if the Bump had a thread search feature. 

And, yes, I did post an NT question because I wondered how many ladies have had the NT, and how necessary everyone felt it was.  The girls were wonderful and most helpful! I only hope I can be as helpful in the future!

vanillacourage

Alliebooberz:

So 2nd + time moms  - are there any other tests that we get to look forward to that will be discussed ad nauseam ? 

 

Just wait until the umpteeth baby names post.  Or "what are you registering for?".  Or baby shower silliness.  God forbid there is a recall of a well-known/used item, because the board will talk about nothing but for weeks, and then it will die down, and then a random will come on a month later all "OMG did you hear about this PRODUCT RECALL, I know this MAY have been discussed but if this post keeps ONE MORE BABY SAFE it's worth it!!!!!!!!!11"

mhollidayesq

There are definitely a lot of repeat topics on here (and I would by lying if I said sometimes I havent been slightly annoyed by a few -- like I just dont get the 3pm Sexy Man post...LOL).  But it could just be that the person who is asking is new to the board or that they never read any of the prior posts on the subjects etc.  I think since we are all pregnant and emotional we can sometimes have strong comments or feelings about some of the posts we see (and some tend to be a bit over snarky when responding sometimes).  Just today I was blasted by a few for posting the same post on this board and another post.  I found it comical only because we all are free to post whatever is on our mind at that moment.  I'm not calling you out or anything (because I think your grumpiness is a normal pregnancy symptom)...but just observing how we all can be a little sensitive during this crazy hormonol time.

NewzieMom

Guess what it's all repetitive. Everyone of these post I read I have read at least one other like it. Even this post stating how annoying the nt scan post are.

SheenaNash1

mhollidayesq:

There are definitely a lot of repeat topics on here (and I would by lying if I said sometimes I havent been slightly annoyed by a few -- like I just dont get the 3pm Sexy Man post...LOL).  But it could just be that the person who is asking is new to the board or that they never read any of the prior posts on the subjects etc.  I think since we are all pregnant and emotional we can sometimes have strong comments or feelings about some of the posts we see (and some tend to be a bit over snarky when responding sometimes).  Just today I was blasted by a few for posting the same post on this board and another post.  I found it comical only because we all are free to post whatever is on our mind at that moment.  I'm not calling you out or anything (because I think your grumpiness is a normal pregnancy symptom)...but just observing how we all can be a little sensitive during this crazy hormonol time.

Oh hon, there's nothing to get. It's just wonderful eye candy!

 

mhollidayesq

SheenaNash1:

mhollidayesq:

There are definitely a lot of repeat topics on here (and I would by lying if I said sometimes I havent been slightly annoyed by a few -- like I just dont get the 3pm Sexy Man post...LOL).  But it could just be that the person who is asking is new to the board or that they never read any of the prior posts on the subjects etc.  I think since we are all pregnant and emotional we can sometimes have strong comments or feelings about some of the posts we see (and some tend to be a bit over snarky when responding sometimes).  Just today I was blasted by a few for posting the same post on this board and another post.  I found it comical only because we all are free to post whatever is on our mind at that moment.  I'm not calling you out or anything (because I think your grumpiness is a normal pregnancy symptom)...but just observing how we all can be a little sensitive during this crazy hormonol time.

Oh hon, there's nothing to get. It's just wonderful eye candy!

 

LOL. Hey I'm not mad about it...was just slightly confused the first time I saw it ( was thinking maybe a wrong post on the wrong board) and then realized it's a daily thing and very much intended for this board! LOL.

farfanoogen

it boggles me. I feel that anyone who was born after the internet went public should be well aware of how it works and all of its features.  btw the search box is slightly below and to the left of the reply button complete with green  backing directly under the hot topics that are in blue. there is a search box at the top of some screens and a google search on others.  eta: more grumpy sentances.

farfanoogen

LGLDVM:

farfanoogen:

it boggles me. I feel that anyone who was born after the internet went public should be well aware of how it works and all of its features.  btw the search box is slightly below and to the left of the reply button complete with green  backing directly under the hot topics that are in blue. there is a search box at the top of some screens and a google search on others.  eta: more grumpy sentances.

Did you try the search feature on the board?  It doesn't work and it tends to throw my computer into convulsing fits. I do search Google for things (community: the bump NT scan) but not everyone thinks to do that.

haha So sorry, I dunno what to tell you, it works fine with me. I put NT scan in and it kicked back a bunch of recent threads.

JennPierog

Irisheyes1247:

Oh man, the flippin glucose test. And then GBS. It is a lot of rePetition, then the crowd thins and it gets a little better.

No offence but I have felt this way from the beginning. Everything was the same damn post reworded a 100 times! I hope it gets better

texasweetea

SheenaNash1:

I agree! My one exception is when people post their u/s pics from them, those I love seeing and I think everyone deserves to have their moment to post that on here.

Can I add an NT scan vent?

It really makes me stabby when people say "I'm not getting the NT scan, it wouldn't impact what we do" or "We aren't getting it, no matter what this baby is loved" or some other crap along those lines. Ummm...I had no plans of getting an abortion (yes people, we can say that word we are adults) and I love my baby no matter what. Just because I choose to arm myself with as much knowledge as I can doesn't mean that the results would change my mind about anything or that I don't love my baby until I find out its healthy.

I'm not knocking anyone for not getting the scan, heck I almost didn't get it myself! But citing those things as reasons not to get one is kind of b/s to me.

 

i was actually against the scan because i didn't care (not that i don't care about baby but because it won't matter to me and i didn't wanna do any blood test or be poked or whatever i imagined.) but i didn't think OMG you horrible mothers to be how dare you take that test. i said no to my nurse and she said well you want to be prepared and i was like ugh whatever but then i found out i get a free u/s so that was the kicker for me.

slukd79

SheenaNash1:

I agree! My one exception is when people post their u/s pics from them, those I love seeing and I think everyone deserves to have their moment to post that on here.

Can I add an NT scan vent?

It really makes me stabby when people say "I'm not getting the NT scan, it wouldn't impact what we do" or "We aren't getting it, no matter what this baby is loved" or some other crap along those lines. Ummm...I had no plans of getting an abortion (yes people, we can say that word we are adults) and I love my baby no matter what. Just because I choose to arm myself with as much knowledge as I can doesn't mean that the results would change my mind about anything or that I don't love my baby until I find out its healthy.

I'm not knocking anyone for not getting the scan, heck I almost didn't get it myself! But citing those things as reasons not to get one is kind of b/s to me.

 

100% in agreement. Those posts drive me nutty. Getting a NT test does not mean I am looking to change my mind about loving or not loving this baby.