I also have a big mouth bc people keep asking us when we are going to get pregnant. More H than me, as he is like, well we are trying right now! Ok babe, I'm glad you are excited...but since he already has kids...and I don't, there is more pressure on me you know?
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UGGGG!!! Yes, I have avoided telling anyone that DH and I know or family..Instead, I have told random people like the girls at my sons daycare..WTF..I know
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Usually I have a very VERY big mouth but I am not telling anyone until I get the BFP. Plus my husband doesn't want anyone to know that we are just trying cause he thinks that it's kinda weird haha! I want to tell people that we are trying especially my family but I have to wait until it happens. The only people who know are you girls now! GL with everything!
DH and I wanted to keep quiet about things...but I keep leaking our TTC info to other ladies that are expecting. It's hard for me to be around them hearing them share without sharing as well.
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It's hard, because I really want to tell my mom, but I don't feel like I can. I had a csection, and if I get pregnant now, it will be less than 18 months between births, and she will get worried/upset, and try and talk me out of it. If I wait until I have a BFP, or it will be 18 months between, then she will just be happy, lol.
I spilled the beans to my sister and my two best friends. We are all fairly recently married and TTC, so it's nice to be able to share that with some of my favorite people.
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I have learned to keep my mouth shut. If it wouldn't offend people I probably wouldn't tell too many people about the pregnancy. People feel that once you share things with them they have the right to comment, give advice, and tell you about their experiences.
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Me: 32 DH: 37 Married: May 24, 2008 TTC #2 since: June 2020
DH and I are approaching our 2nd anniversary and get lots of questions. We usually go with the "We're not trying, but we're not, NOT trying." It seems to be working so far. Other than that, I've only really told a gf that I work with. We're both TTC, so we've got alot to chat about!
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ha ha ha ha yeah.. any of my good friends who have kids probably know DH and I are trying..Also last year when I got my BFP that later resulted in a loss (CP), I told my mom and both of my sisters. Then I got to tell them when I was no longer pg, and it was so close that I almost felt like a crazy person for saying anything.
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I have a big mouth too but I am going to try really hard not to tell anyone we are ttc until after we are pg. my mom and I are super close so it will be hard. but We were also sure that we weren't going to have more then 1 and have told everyone that so I don't want to say anything and have it thrown back in our faces.
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I've only told one friend. I don't want anyone else to know. And I would never tell anyone who flat out asked me if I was TTC - those are the types of people who don't stop hounding you every minute to see if you are KU yet.
DH and I have been married for a year, and it seems like everyone in our families thinks I'm pregnant already and hiding it. Nope, just trying! When they ask point blank, I blurt out that we're working on it.
DH and I have been married for a year, and it seems like everyone in our families thinks I'm pregnant already and hiding it. Nope, just trying! When they ask point blank, I blurt out that we're working on it.
I wouldn't even say that because that basically implies that you are TTC. I feel that people who are so bold as to ask you do not deserve to know.
I had planned on telling no one, but once we started I can't stop telling people. I've told my mom, my sister, about everyone I work closely with, and today I told one of my patients. I'm trying to scale down the baby making talk so when I do get KU I can TRY to keep that quiet.
I had planned on telling no one, but once we started I can't stop telling people. I've told my mom, my sister, about everyone I work closely with, and today I told one of my patients. I'm trying to scale down the baby making talk so when I do get KU I can TRY to keep that quiet.
I really should too, I really don't want work to know when I am pregnant, they were horrible and mean last time.
I'm definitely going to try to keep my mouth shut! I've told a couple of friends, but we're not saying anything as far as family goes. We are already being hounded about when we are going to have another baby, and I don't want to add to the number of questions we are already getting.
Oh I can sooo relate to this! We decided in March that we were going to start trying this summer, and since then I have told WAY too many people. My mom, my 5 best friends (and its gotten back to me that they've told their friends...), people at work, some of my husband's friend's wives...it's not good. I feel like no one is going to be surprised when I'm KU! Which is kinda sad for me, but nothing I can do about it now!
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I feel like everyone knows, and found out in various ways. DH and I were the first of our friends to marry (by years), it was apparent I wanted children, and here we are 5 yrs later with no baby...I feel like everyone ASSUMES we are having trouble...particularly my DH's family. My family knows because they wouldn't stop harassing me that I was next in line and we are all girls with the exception of my brother. Even my handle-bar mustached uncle asked my H (while we were in a bar) if he heard correctly that we are TTC. I was HORRIFIED!
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I feel like everyone knows, and found out in various ways. DH and I were the first of our friends to marry (by years), it was apparent I wanted children, and here we are 5 yrs later with no baby...I feel like everyone ASSUMES we are having trouble...particularly my DH's family. My family knows because they wouldn't stop harassing me that I was next in line and we are all girls with the exception of my brother. Even my handle-bar mustached uncle asked my H (while we were in a bar) if he heard correctly that we are TTC. I was HORRIFIED!
I can never understand why people feel it is their business to ask! You never know what others are going through. I figure if they want me to know, they'll tell me.
Ugh! I know! DH and I decided we weren't going to tell anybody...and then I told two of my best friends...and then I told my mom. Then I told two more friends. Yeah, I can't keep it to myself. I'm just so excited!
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Re: I wish I didn't have such a big mouth
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I have learned to keep my mouth shut. If it wouldn't offend people I probably wouldn't tell too many people about the pregnancy. People feel that once you share things with them they have the right to comment, give advice, and tell you about their experiences.
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DH: 37
Married: May 24, 2008
TTC #2 since: June 2020
I wouldn't even say that because that basically implies that you are TTC. I feel that people who are so bold as to ask you do not deserve to know.
Surprise BFP 6/1/2012
I really should too, I really don't want work to know when I am pregnant, they were horrible and mean last time.
I can never understand why people feel it is their business to ask! You never know what others are going through. I figure if they want me to know, they'll tell me.