Parenting after a Loss

I just paid $10 for my 8lb baby to eat at a buffet.

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I just took my 7w (adjusted age) old, 8.5lb DD to eat at the buffet at Viejas Indian casino (DH and I went up there to gamble a bit, while my parents took DD to the outlet stores across the street, so we went there for lunch).

They charged me $9.95 for my lunch, and $9.95 for DD's lunch. Is this normal....do other restaurants charge full price for babies? She weighs 8.5lbs and only drinks breastmilk.


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Re: I just paid $10 for my 8lb baby to eat at a buffet.

  • uhm no

    most places don't charge me for DD and she actually eats...

    I would be livid

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  • There is no way in hell I would have paid for that and I would TOTALLY write angry letters to the management. The CHILD CANNOT EAT. hell, the child can't even FRICKIN SIT UNSUPPORTED.

    Dude. omg. That's not right.

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  • I absolutely would not have paid that.  They would have had to chase me down for it!
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  • I would have turned around and left.  That is outrageous!
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  • imageShellShockedMama:

    There is no way in hell I would have paid for that and I would TOTALLY write angry letters to the management. The CHILD CANNOT EAT. hell, the child can't even FRICKIN SIT UNSUPPORTED.

    Dude. omg. That's not right.

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  • imageShellShockedMama:

    There is no way in hell I would have paid for that and I would TOTALLY write angry letters to the management. The CHILD CANNOT EAT. hell, the child can't even FRICKIN SIT UNSUPPORTED.

    Dude. omg. That's not right.

    Um, this. That's ridonkulous

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  • I would be pissed. Your LO didn't eat anything and should not have paid to eat. WTF?
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  • What the heck are you serious!? I thought they charge 2 and up in most places. OMG I am so jealous though that you are in San Diego.
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  • If I didn't know better I would think this was MUD. They charged you for a baby that doesn't eat solids?? For realz??

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  • If you still have your receipt, you could call the manager & complain about the erroneous charge.  If they value customer relations, they'll give you a refund.

    Totally ridiculous!

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    I would be pissed. Your LO didn't eat anything and should not have paid to eat. WTF?

    I thought the cashier was joking at first until I saw the receipt. By that point, we had already waited in line 20 minutes, and were hungry, so we just paid it so we could enter and eat. The manager explained that they don't charge for people to eat, instead they pay for people to enter the buffet, and she counts as a person. WTF?

    Oh, and you bet I whipped out the boob in public to nurse her at the table. I dared anyone to comment on my NIP. Too bad no one did or I would have said: "I paid for her to eat, and now she is eating. I didn't see 'breastmilk' on the menu, so I had to bring my own."

    I seriously considered ordering a coke "for the baby" just to see if the waitress would have brought it.


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  • How money hungry are they?! Seriously? I have never been charged for DD's meal and she is almost 2. 
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    imagexleslieraex:
    I would be pissed. Your LO didn't eat anything and should not have paid to eat. WTF?

    I thought the cashier was joking at first until I saw the receipt. By that point, we had already waited in line 20 minutes, and were hungry, so we just paid it so we could enter and eat. The manager explained that they don't charge for people to eat, instead they pay for people to enter the buffet, and she counts as a person. WTF?

    Oh, and you bet I whipped out the boob in public to nurse her at the table. I dared anyone to comment on my NIP. Too bad no one did or I would have said: "I paid for her to eat, and now she is eating. I didn't see 'breastmilk' on the menu, so I had to bring my own."

    I seriously considered ordering a coke "for the baby" just to see if the waitress would have brought it.

    LOL!!!  I was just telling DH what happened to you and he said that we would have had me feed him at the bar with no cover.  We paid for him to eat here!  Than I scan down and see that you did that.  Good for you!!! 

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  • That is absurd! Sorry you went through that, but now I know to not bother taking Logan to the buffet. I'll stick to the diner, they have yummy fries anyway!

    How long will you be in town??? If you have any spare time we should GTG :)

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