I've debated posting this and even wrote out the post once and deleted it because I know I sound whiney but this is my complaining/venting area so flame away if you want.
I'm really sad to go back to work tomorrow. I am only going back for a month and my husband is staying home with LO so I know it's a much better position then some of the ladies dreading daycare and not having the option to stay home at any point, but I'm still really upset. I've never been apart from her for more than 2 hours (and that's only been a grand total of 4 times since she was born), so 8 hours plus commuting time seems like an eternity. She's my little sidekick.
I think in some ways it's almost harder mentally then if I was going back for good because it's not just biting the bullet and making us all adjust. By the time we adjust we'll switch around again. Plus I have to transition to the pumping thing with her getting mostly bottles and then try to get her back to EBFing in a month so I'm nervous how that's going to go especially since we had latching issues in the beginning. :-(
Re: Sad...
No flames here but I wish I had your situation! I would give anything to only be going back for a month!
I think whether you leave them for a day or a week, right now they are just all so dependent on mommy that its heartbreaking to break that bond even a teensy bit.
My Chart
BFP #1 - 6-2009 - edd 1-23-10 - mmc - discovered by u/s @ 13wks 2days - D&C
BFP #2 - 10-15-2010 - Baby boy born 6-11-11
BFP#3 - 6-2013 - edd 2-21-14 -mmc discovered by u/s @ 9 wks - D&C
BFP #4 - 3-10-14 - edd 11-19-14 - natural miscarriage 4-10-14
BFP #5 - 8-24-14 - edd 5-5-15 - Please be our RAINBOW!!!
U/S 9-30 - baby measuring right on track, heart rate of 155bpm
U/S 10-8 & 10-14 - baby is growing perfectly!
10-20 - 151 bpm 10-31 153 bpm
11-13 IT'S A BOY!!!!!
Not flaming, just suggesting you try and look at the bright side and concentrate on the blessings you did/do have.
What I do when I'm dreading something or feel really sad is to allow myself to feel those feelings. Take some time to sulk and pout a little, then move on and try to only concentrate on positive things like how fortunate I am.
Thanks ladies! I'm definitely trying to look on the bright side, and believe me I know how incredibly lucky I am to only have to go back for a month. It's just much, much harder than I imagined. Of course, when I was pregnant I thought I would be excited to go back to work and be chomping at the bit feeling trapped at home. Never in a million years did I ever think I would ever want to stay at home.
How things change in such a short amount of time. It's amazing.