She seems pretty stressed. I thought maybe some of you could offer support/advice to her. I posted already, but I am sure it would be nice for her to see that it isn't as "abnormal" as she feels. He isn't a preemie, but it sounds like she is dealing with some of the same stuff preemie moms deal with.
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/57451931.aspx