jcole

bethyla

I have been thinking about you.  How are things going with your DH?

jcole32444

Things are a work in progress. I think I let things get to far. I feel like I let myself get to the point where I just did not care what happened anymore. I was preparing myself to be ready to move on instead of fighting for anything.

The next day made H do a lot around the house. It may have been because he had a hangover and I was really po'd at him. The day after he went about his normal business, he went outside and then came back in for something and noticed I was irritated. I explained to him again it was because I wanted help around the house, that I needed the help. So he stayed in for the rest of the night and helped.

Yesterday, he made dinner and then was outside for the rest of the night. I am upset that he is spending so much time outside. But I am happy that we didn't fight Monday or yesterday.

Sometimes I feel like we can work through things and grow closer other times I just want to give up on him. (That sounds terrible.)

Thanks for asking.

bethyla

I don't really have any advice to offer, but I really hope that you guys can get things worked out.  You seem like too nice of a person to be living in that situation! 

mommabear530

bethyla:

I don't really have any advice to offer, but I really hope that you guys can get things worked out.  You seem like too nice of a person to be living in that situation! 

This. Thanks Bethyla for posting, I was also wondering about your Jcole. I'm glad you weren't fighting those days and hope that can open the door for some heartfelt talks. Keep us posted.