chances of being pregnant...

lkates921

So i'm due to ovulate sometime this week..and i'm not on any birth control and my SO and i had a slip up yesterday afternoon...what are the chances i might get pregnant?

devinjonesrn

Well sperm can live in the right conditions for up to 5 days...its always a possibility. 

I couldn't help notice your tickers...you have two sets of twins 2 months apart!?  Yowza! 

klr210

the chances are 43.7%, or there about.

lkates921

devinjonesrn:

Well sperm can live in the right conditions for up to 5 days...its always a possibility. 

I couldn't help notice your tickers...you have two sets of twins 2 months apart!?  Yowza! 

Well one set are mine and the other set is my SO's and we don't have have them full time only twice a week and sometimes an overnight visit...i'm probably not due to ovulate until closer to the end of the week...it wouldn't be a bad thing but it would just be not the right timing that's all...the next child i have will be the last then we'll have 5 kids between the two of us hopefully i wouldn't be one to have back to back sets lol mine are identical so that's probably a low chance lol

lkates921

klr210:

the chances are 43.7%, or there about.

wow really?? almost 50! so i guess i should have some tests ready at the end of the month...i shouldn't ovulate until closer till the end of the week and by then most the sperm probably wouldn't still be alive...i've heard that your body can sense sperm and release an egg a little earlier...is that really true or just a myth?

OrangeSmoke

lkates921:

devinjonesrn:

Well sperm can live in the right conditions for up to 5 days...its always a possibility. 

I couldn't help notice your tickers...you have two sets of twins 2 months apart!?  Yowza! 

Well one set are mine and the other set is my SO's and we don't have have them full time only twice a week and sometimes an overnight visit...i'm probably not due to ovulate until closer to the end of the week...it wouldn't be a bad thing but it would just be not the right timing that's all...the next child i have will be the last then we'll have 5 kids between the two of us hopefully i wouldn't be one to have back to back sets lol mine are identical so that's probably a low chance lol

Not to be a complete douche about this - you were KU with twins and then your SO KU someone else with another set of twins?

The nosy bumpie inside of me need more details please.

 

lkates921

OrangeSmoke:

lkates921:

devinjonesrn:

Well sperm can live in the right conditions for up to 5 days...its always a possibility. 

I couldn't help notice your tickers...you have two sets of twins 2 months apart!?  Yowza! 

Well one set are mine and the other set is my SO's and we don't have have them full time only twice a week and sometimes an overnight visit...i'm probably not due to ovulate until closer to the end of the week...it wouldn't be a bad thing but it would just be not the right timing that's all...the next child i have will be the last then we'll have 5 kids between the two of us hopefully i wouldn't be one to have back to back sets lol mine are identical so that's probably a low chance lol

Not to be a complete douche about this - you were KU with twins and then your SO KU someone else with another set of twins?

The nosy bumpie inside of me need more details please.

 

my SO and i just got together 4 months ago...i'm in the process of divorcing my ex and he was never married to his children's mother...its a weird situation i know...so my children aren't his by blood but he takes care of them like they're his own and i do the same toward his children when we do see them...his ex makes it difficult for us to see them

PhishPosh

Dont feed the TROLL!!!

violaplayer

I love the smell of troll in the morning....

ougrad1

I just put two and two together and this is the lady who posted about the deplorable conditions her S/O's twins were living in a week or two ago.

Many people gave her sound advice and she ended up calling Children's services on the mother of her S/O's twins.

Surely you guys remember.....

OP-did the other mother ever figure out it was you guys who called children's services on her? 

OrangeSmoke

ougrad1:

I just put two and two together and this is the lady who posted about the deplorable conditions her S/O's twins were living in a week or two ago.

Many people gave her sound advice and she ended up calling Children's services on the mother of her S/O's twins.

Surely you guys remember.....

OP-did the other mother ever figure out it was you guys who called children's services on her? 

Thank you!  This is why we keep you around!

tmbuchmann

PhishPosh:

Dont feed the TROLL!!!

Who, YOU? Cause the OP isn't a troll.

OrangeSmoke

tmbuchmann:

PhishPosh:

Dont feed the TROLL!!!

Who, YOU? Cause the OP isn't a troll.

Come on, gotta love the irony of someone with two posts calling someone else a troll!

ougrad1

OrangeSmoke:

ougrad1:

I just put two and two together and this is the lady who posted about the deplorable conditions her S/O's twins were living in a week or two ago.

Many people gave her sound advice and she ended up calling Children's services on the mother of her S/O's twins.

Surely you guys remember.....

OP-did the other mother ever figure out it was you guys who called children's services on her? 

Thank you!  This is why we keep you around!

LOL 

lkates921

ougrad1:

I just put two and two together and this is the lady who posted about the deplorable conditions her S/O's twins were living in a week or two ago.

Many people gave her sound advice and she ended up calling Children's services on the mother of her S/O's twins.

Surely you guys remember.....

OP-did the other mother ever figure out it was you guys who called children's services on her? 

Yes, she did figure that it was us..we didn't tell her that it was us but i don't think that it was hard to figure out that it was us...

She's very angry that we did that and she's been being very rude and nasty to my SO and she's been making it very hard for us to see the kids. She says that they're going to close to the case. But i don't know how true this is..i would imagine that if child services said that everything is okay that she wouldn't be SO angry at us. We haven't heard anything from child services and no one has come to our house to talk to us or anything so i have no clue what's going on. She's not letting them come over probably because she doesn't want me to find anything else that's wrong. Not really sure what else we can do if child services says everything is okay. 

Also, what in the world is a troll?? Is that supposed to mean i'm lying about everything because honestly this situation is too ridiculous to make up.

tmbuchmann

lkates921:

ougrad1:

I just put two and two together and this is the lady who posted about the deplorable conditions her S/O's twins were living in a week or two ago.

Many people gave her sound advice and she ended up calling Children's services on the mother of her S/O's twins.

Surely you guys remember.....

OP-did the other mother ever figure out it was you guys who called children's services on her? 

Yes, she did figure that it was us..we didn't tell her that it was us but i don't think that it was hard to figure out that it was us...

She's very angry that we did that and she's been being very rude and nasty to my SO and she's been making it very hard for us to see the kids. She says that they're going to close to the case. But i don't know how true this is..i would imagine that if child services said that everything is okay that she wouldn't be SO angry at us. We haven't heard anything from child services and no one has come to our house to talk to us or anything so i have no clue what's going on. She's not letting them come over probably because she doesn't want me to find anything else that's wrong. Not really sure what else we can do if child services says everything is okay. 

Also, what in the world is a troll?? Is that supposed to mean i'm lying about everything because honestly this situation is too ridiculous to make up.

To me, a troll means, someone who is using an AE (alternate ego, or someone who came up with a new screen name to post malicious things about someone else and they don't use their real screenname so no one knows who they "really" are.) or a person who is trying to spam the boards with advertisements.

SpinningJess

OrangeSmoke:

tmbuchmann:

PhishPosh:

Dont feed the TROLL!!!

Who, YOU? Cause the OP isn't a troll.

Come on, gotta love the irony of someone with two posts calling someone else a troll!

KatieBlondie27

I need a drink

E&RMommy

The chance of getting pregnant for anyone any cycle is 20-25%.  The older you get, the lower the chance.  But across the board 20-25%.

 

sunnybrook.

I'm surprised that you're being so casual about birth control and flippant about being pregnant.

You have been with your SO 4 months. He has been ok with his children being neglected and has done nothing about it. You said in a previous post that you can't handle raising 4 toddlers. If you can't raise 4 children, what makes you think you can raise 5? ugh....there are just so many things wrong with this, I don't even know what else to say.

Please, please, please for the sake of all 4 children, don't bring another one into this situation until everything is stable and the two of you have a solid relationship.

If I were you, I would be calling my doctor for the morning after pill and getting on BCP today.

I really don't mean to sound harsh, but after everything you said in previous posts, it's pretty shocking.