Upstate NY Babies

So much going on !

Ok so I need some advise. Today I went to my 8 week check up and I was told that there was no heart to hear today because the baby may not be developing. I was so upset about this that I started sobbing at the OBGYN's office. I was a hot mess. I will be fine. I will know for sure by friday. And we can try again.  on top of this stress, I just started a new job that I am not all that Jazzed about and I have been in contact with my old job to go with all of this baby stuff going on my current boss at the job that I dont really like is being so nice to me and I feel bad because I want to go back to my old job. I left my old job because the admin was not so nice to work with and since then one of my old bosses took that job and has offered for me to come back with my own office and it should be a great opertunity but I feel so horrible. And then on top of all of this, my father goes in for surgery Thursday ! ugh... help!


Re: So much going on !

  • First of all, I am so sorry you got that news at the office.  I hope that the baby is just measuring a little bit behind and that you will get good news on Friday.

    Don't worry about work - do what you feel is best for you.  I'm glad your new boss is being nice, but they will always find a new employee if you decide it is best to leave.  Take care of yourself #1, whether or not you get good news on Friday.  Even if that means you can't be there as much for your dad as you would like. 

    Good luck!

  • I'm really sorry to hear about the baby.  Were they using a doppler or did you have an u/s?  Maybe the baby is just a little behind.

    As far as the job goes you have to do what is best for you and your family.  If going back to the old job is the right thing to do then you should.

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  • thank you so much for your good wishes. I had a MC. not fun at all. tomorrow I go for the new job. I want to go back. I feel horrible about the new job but you are right. I need to do whats best for me and my family. its so hard to not do things or make things so personal. but as women I think that its just something that we just do. Thank you again. Im so nervous.

    I just hope that I am making the right decision. I think I feel that I am but I have felt this way before.


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