My nips are killing me. My DD is about a week and a half old and my nipples are cracked and bleeding, I think from when we were in the hospital just starting to BF. We weren't quite getting the hang of it then and now her latch is much better, but my nipples haven't healed and seem to get worse every time I BF. So I was considering using a nipple shield, but everything I hear about those is that LOs get hooked and it's hard to wean them from the shield.
So I was wondering, has anyone used the shield for just a day or two? Or even only a week? If so, was it still just as hard to wean your LO from it?
I've considered introducing the bottle and pumping instead of BFing for a day or two so my nipples can heal, but I'd really rather wait to introduce the bottle for at least another week. But if worse comes to worse, I may do that. Right now I'm just toughing it out. TIA for any advice!
Re: Has anyone ever used a nipple shield for a short period of time? (Like less than a week?)
After two weeks of me crying in pain every time baby latched and seeing two lactation consultants, one convinced me to try the shield and it saved our breastfeeding relationship. I definitely would have given up without it!
We ended up using it for two months or so and he had very littl e trouble going back to the nipple after that. When weaning, we would just start with the shield and then remove it after a couple of minutes and within a few days we were done. Even if LO doesn't wean from it easily, I don't see a huge downside to using the shield indefinitely. You have to keep up with it and clean it but if that's what it takes to keep nursing, no big deal I think.
Also, we introduced the bottle once a day at two or three weeks and he never had any "nipple confusion" that I was so worried about. In fact, my best friend who is a speech pathologist told me that babies begin to lose the ability to learn to bottle feed after 3 months old and she has never seen a real problem with "nipple confusion" but does see older babies who can't learn to use the bottle when it's introduced too late. That's more than you asked for and I am not an expert in any way so for whatever that is worth
Best wishes. Figure out what works for you and LO and I wouldn't worry so much about what LO gets attached to. You don't have to do it the same way as anyone else
We had to use a shield AND bottle due to flat nipples/engorgement. We weaned DD off of the shield by 4 weeks (feeding by feeding saving nights for last) and we've not had any nipple confusion.
I think pumping would stink just as bad as nursing. It always makes my nipples hurt so bad. Hopefully a shield can get you some relief as you heal and continue to nurse.
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afraid my experience is different-- we started with shields for the same reason and it has been impossible to get her off of them!
If I had to do it over, I would only use them for every other feeding.
Your baby is still really little. I wouldn't give up. I used the shield exclusively until I weaned DD off of it at 7 weeks. Give your baby a few more weeks. Her mouth will get bigger, and it will be easier for her to latch without it. Once my DD realized that she could get the milk a lot faster without the shield, she started pulling it off herself.