I just had my baby shower with all of my girl friends and I have one friend that either didnt have her gift recorded by my host or didnt get a gift at all. I am writing thank you's and I do not want to insult her if she did get me something but I dont want to thank her for getting me something if she didnt? I truly dont mind about the gift but I do want to thank her for coming. What do i Do? Please any advice would be much appreciated.