DH and I are starting to think about the timing of when to TTC #2. I know you can't totally plan these things but DS was a one shot deal so we *think* it could happen the first month out of the gate for us like it did last time. SO, do we try for an early summer baby so that I can recover from my c/s and get used to a nb/juggling 2 kids w/o preschool in the mix? We also live in GA so trying to take DS to the pool in the heat of summer with a nb might be impossible, therefore not really fair to ds to be stuck inside/home all summer. OR do I aim for an august baby have a few weeks at home and then do the preschool carpool thing 4 days a week w/a newborn?
I am curious to hear from moms who have done it and what your thoughts are. I realize the adjustment from 1-2 will not be easy no matter what but I am trying to take daily life factors that into account that I didn't have to think about last time.