Hi. I haven't posted anything on any sites yet. I don't know if I should be on TTTC (we've been trying for a year) or TTCAL (we miscarried May '10). But I'm 36, so I know that I fit here. :-)
My poor DH. After the m/c I was an emotional wreck (more than usual!). I didn't even want to have sex in case we got preg and m/c again. Now, we're seeing a fertility specialist. (I'm a little better, but I have my moments.) So glad that I work for a Catholic hospital- insurance is paying 90%. They put me on Femara this past month. But since only one follicle looked like it was going to mature, they put off the IUI. Maybe next month.
The nurses and the doctor that I'm working with keep saying things like, "Next month we'll do blah blah blah, but maybe you'll get pregnant this month and you won't have to worry about it!" That is so frustrating! I don't want you to sugar-coat it. Don't try to cheer me up with false hope! Let's just plan on doing what we're going to do, and if, by some miracle, some oversight by the fertility angels, I do get preg, that HOORAY! But until then, just stop.
Anyways, hello, ladies.