I've written before about my FI calling off our wedding and leaving me pregnant less than a month before, on top of which asking for me to be "responsible" and have an abortion. I kept the baby, since then he's come in and out of my life with no real commitment and its apparent that I am doing this all by myself here.
His mother is in town and this morning he texted me that she wanted the three of us to go out to dinner. I declined, but offered that if she wanted to see me she could stop by and we could get together just the two of us. I don't want us to pretend that we're some "happy family" here going out to dinner and I honestly don't know what he's said to her. In the past I have heard nothing from her.
To make a long story short, she is coming by after work and I honestly don't know what to talk to her about. Should I tell her all the things her son has done and how I feel? Or do we just keep it to small talk? Please help me with any advice you might have!
Re: Need advice- seeing ex-FI's mother tonight (with update)
All of this. Be the adult in the situation, and take the high road. Keep things light, and only put it out there if she directly asks. If she thinks you are only bashing her son, she may close up and get defensive, not listening to a word you are saying.