My BIL is coming for 2 weeks arriving 1 week before my due date. He is coming from germany and speaks limited english. his favorite words in english are all swear words. he is a heavy metal big hair band music fan. he is a really nice guy. he is my dh twin. he has not bought tickets yet but will not change the dates he is coming even though he knows i am due at that time and my dh has told him he can't go liston to bands with him if i have not had the baby. i am dreading him coming at this time. if it was a few weeks earlier i wouldn't mind. my dh wants him to sleep in the babies room i want him to sleep in the basement which we have carpet and a room somewhat set up in. our guest bedroom will be our ds room in the next few weeks. my bil sleeps until noon or 1 pm when he is on vacation. so i won't be able to get stuff out of the babies room if I have the baby while he is here. he will be staying out late while he is here. his days are usually spend looking for records and going to liston to small bands in bad area. he loves heavy metal music. i wouldn't mind i am just worried about having him stay in the babies room if i have the baby early. my ds came 3 weeks early. my dh is not taking time off while he is here. so if i go off of work 2 weeks before my due date i feel like i need to entertain him. he is very nice but doesn't understand me well and i do not understand him well. i think my biggest complaint is where my dh wants him to sleep. he gets upset when i bring up anything about his family. how would you approach having him stay in the basement in the partically finished room down there vs the babies room? sorry this is long and i am venting. it is starting to stress me out.