How do I tell my family?

atnoz861

I am 22 and this is my first time being a mom. I am a little stressed out because I have yet to tell my family. I am only 5 weeks along, but the more days pass I feel as if my life might be easier if they knew. I am scared of the reaction mainly because I haven't finished my degree and was planning on moving to Chicago at the end of August to attend school.....any advice on how to break the ice?

mben1119

We were just up front and honest with our families.  It is easier to be truthful than to double back and try to explain why you weren't earlier.  Good luck!

reneenearl

My advice is for you to tell the one who you trust and supports you the most. If you are concerned about your family's reaction, you will need the support of a loved one to turn to and confide in.  Your family may be shocked at first, but give them time to process this information. They will come around. Maybe have a plan on how you are still planning to accomplish your goals with a baby. That would be reassuring to yourself and your family. Maybe your new plans won't involve Chicago, or maybe they will! Follow your heart, everything will work out.

 Not the same situation, but My brother was a teen parent, and he was very honest. We were raised by our father, and he was just glad my borther was being honest and not trying to hide it. Our father and our father's side of the family went on to be a strong support system for my brother and my nephew

1234Nevaeh

Are you closer to either parent?? I went to my mom first an told her, and then broke the ice from there. For me it was easier to have one done before I did the other kind of thing.. I was younger than you when I had my first. When I got pregnant the second time It was easier and it was no big deal to tell everyone. But I would just get it out and tell them. Have you gone to the doctor yet?? Maybe it would be easier to tell after you have seen and confirmed and possibly got a ultrasound pict to go along with you when you tell your family. If your not one of words then...you could just hand the pict of the baby to them I waited until after my first appointments for both pregnancies before I told my family. Best of luck!

owoods5249

I'm 22 also and just found out that I'm pregnant. I decided when we told our parents that I wanted to do it in a fun way that would make everyone excited. I went to Target and bought bibs that said "I love Grandma" and "I love Grandpa." I wrapped them up and showed up at our parents houses with presents!

 

I know that our circumstances might be different but I think after they get over the initial shock everyone is excited about having a new little family member. I tried to portray it in a very positive light when I told them, and everyone seemed to handle it fabulously. Best of luck, and remember that no matter what, this is a time for you to enjoy!