TTC after 35

Neck surgery tomorrow & I'm starting to get nervous

I'm having a disc fusion tomorrow afternoon after six months of increasing pain & numbing & tingling in both hands.  I know that the surgery is necessary & that I will be better off afterwards, but the thought of how close the surgeon will be to my spinal cord is starting to freak me out.  I'm trying to stay busy & keep my mind off it, but it's not working.  I have been trying to tell myself that getting my neck fixed is the last stumbling block that we have & that as soon as it's fixed we can seriously TTC.  Someone help talk me down off of the ledge!!!!  Indifferent
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Re: Neck surgery tomorrow & I'm starting to get nervous

  • I know it's nerve wracking, but just try and think of how much better you'll feel after it's all done. Sending T&P's your way for speedy recovery!
  • MH had two discs fused in his twenties (he's 46 now). I totally understand why you are freaked out but remember, the doctors do this ALL the time. Sending prayers your way!
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  • can't lie ... it's scary.

    but the results are totallyfuckingamazing.  i had fusion surgery in 2005 (c4/c5) ... it was a miracle. i was IMMEDIATELY out of pain - and home the next day.  it was so worth it.

    but yes, scary ... the OR is crazy, but my anesthesiologist was amazingly hot, and he was the last thing i saw before going under.  wishing you the same happy vision.

  • Good luck with your surgery! Just think of how great you will feel in a short while after recovering.  Now get off that ledge and breathe in, breathe out.  GL!

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

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  • Thanks ladies!  It means a lot to have the T&P's coming this way!  As soon as I can, I'll let you know how it went.
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  • I always freak out before surgery so I know how you feel.  I will be praying for you.  Let us know how you are doing.
    BFP on IVF #2 6/29/2012. Beta #1 7/3 = 522; Beta #2 = 1180; Beta #3 = 6491 image BabyFruit Ticker
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