im sick of this....

sammysue1010 · July 2011

im sick of this site..... alll the women on this forum just *** and judge and complain! i havnt been posting or even checking in becouse you people are all so negetive about everything! i will not be coming back on here! you all should look at the way you behaive and speak to each other! im not quite sure how you were raised but i wasnt raised to behaive this way and refuse to read all your posts! this is supposed to be a place for us to come and discuss feelings and concerns and you make it very difficult to want to post anything! NEWSFLASH! you are not better than anyone else! and if you cannot accept people for who they are then why comment on anything they post? "if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all"

leahraewku · July 2011

What provoked this?

sammysue1010 · July 2011

reading reply after reply on some of the posts that were mean and disrespectful... its just not right the way SOME of the women on here comment on other peoples posts

jonnygurl76 · July 2011

sammysue1010:
im sick of this site..... alll the women on this forum just *** and judge and complain! i havnt been posting or even checking in becouse you people are all so negetive about everything! i will not be coming back on here! you all should look at the way you behaive and speak to each other! im not quite sure how you were raised but i wasnt raised to behaive this way and refuse to read all your posts! this is supposed to be a place for us to come and discuss feelings and concerns and you make it very difficult to want to post anything! NEWSFLASH! you are not better than anyone else! and if you cannot accept people for who they are then why comment on anything they post? "if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all"

HappyAardvark · July 2011

Your witty banter and thoughtful contributions to the community will be missed.

PunkyBooster · July 2011

Psssssst.

It's "behave"

txbabs111 · July 2011

Yaaaaay! A GBCB. The day is finally complete!

dlast09 · July 2011

HappyAardvark:
Your witty banter and thoughtful contributions to the community will be missed.

Yes OP if you don't like it, don't read it.

Brosamle2 · July 2011

sammysue1010:
im sick of this site..... alll the women on this forum just *** and judge and complain! i havnt been posting or even checking in becouse you people are all so negetive about everything! i will not be coming back on here! you all should look at the way you behaive and speak to each other! im not quite sure how you were raised but i wasnt raised to behaive this way and refuse to read all your posts! this is supposed to be a place for us to come and discuss feelings and concerns and you make it very difficult to want to post anything! NEWSFLASH! you are not better than anyone else! and if you cannot accept people for who they are then why comment on anything they post? "if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all"

I agree that unfortunately there has been a lot of bad blood lately. Women writing posts that have been offensive or misconceived, and a lot of replies to those posts that have caused even more drama. I don't really understand why we need to insult each other.

However, there are still a lot of women on here who are non-judgmental and very supportive.

Just do what I do and keep yourself out of it. I was offended and unhappy by some of the things that women posted on here, but I just kept my opinions to myself and chalked it up to ignorance. Don't give up on this board. It's still a great place to get information, advice, and support from some great girls!

Elsa1984 · July 2011

Am I the only one wondering who this person is? I have never seen a post from this person yet here we get one saying "alll the women on this forum just *** and judge and complain".....just leave if you don't want to be in the group. Nobody is forcing you to stay......

In my opinion, yes there is some flaming here and there....but usually it is flame worthy.

SheLovesMrHip · July 2011

Wowzers! If you were planning on talking smack the least you could have done was spell check your post.....I mean a few errors is one thing but dang.....really?

blu-eyedwife · July 2011

Here's what I don't understand - I've gone back and looked over your posts and everyone has been really supportive of you. What are you missing?

rkto · July 2011

sometimes people get flamed. It is usually warranted. nobody makes fun for making fun's sake (that I have seen) I am pretty sure there have been people holding back on things they could make fun of.

I have been flamed in the past. and you know what? I deserved it. I asked a stupid question without doing any prior research. I made an ignorant assumption in another post and deserved to be educated on the error in my ways.

I come here to learn. If I offend someone, I want to know about it.

never mind that this is an anonymous message board. If someone hates on me and I dont like it, I can block them or imagine they are fat and ugly with a stupid husband.

karinothing · July 2011

rkto:
sometimes people get flamed. It is usually warranted. nobody makes fun for making fun's sake (that I have seen) I am pretty sure there have been people holding back on things they could make fun of.
I have been flamed in the past. and you know what? I deserved it. I asked a stupid question without doing any prior research. I made an ignorant assumption in another post and deserved to be educated on the error in my ways.
I come here to learn. If I offend someone, I want to know about it.
never mind that this is an anonymous message board. If someone hates on me and I dont like it, I can block them or imagine they are fat and ugly with a stupid husband.

Ditto all of this! I want to know what world these women live in where everyone apparently thinks and feels that exact same way. IMO that would be a pretty sad place to live. I honestly don't understand why folks get so upset about things said on this site. Who cares? You likely aren't going to see these people in real life. You can easily cut this site out of your life if you want. Are you really so delicate that reading mere words ruins your day/life/world view? I just don't get it.

A GBCB really made this day!

lmknight7 · July 2011

Did someone burst your Bumpie Bubble?

What is GBCB?

karinothing · July 2011

lmknight7:

Did someone burst your Bumpie Bubble?

What is GBCB?

Good bye cruel bump

KathleenCB · July 2011

Did I miss something? Well it is the internet-sure there are some crazies on here-that's just life don't take it personally...it's not you...it's the internet. Sort of makes things interesting.

alison2379 · July 2011

PappsMcgee:
Allison!! Here is your GBCB!!!
OP- thanks for your wonderful contribution. I have no idea what we will do without you! Buh bye

Yesssssssss! My week is complete.

pag41989 · July 2011

HappyAardvark:
Your witty banter and thoughtful contributions to the community will be missed.

Yes Yes Yes Yes

ellewoodsSC · July 2011

sammysue1010:
im sick of this site..... alll the women on this forum just *** and judge and complain! i havnt been posting or even checking in becouse you people are all so negetive about everything! i will not be coming back on here! you all should look at the way you behaive and speak to each other! im not quite sure how you were raised but i wasnt raised to behaive this way and refuse to read all your posts! this is supposed to be a place for us to come and discuss feelings and concerns and you make it very difficult to want to post anything! NEWSFLASH! you are not better than anyone else! and if you cannot accept people for who they are then why comment on anything they post? "if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all"

If you've been checking out the posts in the last few weeks, there were some unpopular threads that got out of control, but to be fair, many of the nasty comments were actually from people who are not on the October board, but jumped on the bandwagon once the thread got a lot of attention. IMO most of the October mommies that post here are actually civil and respectful.

My question is why post if you don't want comments? This is a free forum and no one is obligated to blow smoke up your rear or agree with everything you say.