i was hoping that my 1st post on the bump would not be to this board. i had multiple issues with my pregnancy but i was trying to fix them all. my heta hcg was to low. my progesterone was too low (first tried shots but when that didnt work i went to vaginal pills) i cut out all caffeine and started eating right. i spotted thru a lot of my pregnancy but was told it could be normal. well i finally started seeing a dr. who was concerned for me. upon seeing one ultrasound and knowing how far along i should be seeing all my levels and seeing nothing in my uterus he said you may have an ectopic pregnancy. 2nd time seeing him my hcg levels dropped 350 points rather than increasing 200 points like i was praying for. and yet again nothing on the transvaginal ultrasound. he let me get dressed and as i was sitting there i knew what was coming next and i was right. he came in the room and said im sorry but we are going to have to preform a laparoscopic surgery tomorrow and possibly a d & c. i cried all the rest of the day. i took a shower tuesday morning b4 my surgery and was having intense cramping and then i passed something. still unsure what it was but dr sent it off to determine exactly what it was. all i know is bc that happened i didnt have to have the d & c. so now i am in pain from the surgery physically and i am in pain from the loss of our first child emotionally. i feel alone right now even though my hubby and family are all there for me. i just dont know what i should do.