TTC After a Loss

One year mark...

Hi Ladies,

I posted this on TTGP as well, but I thought some of you might know.  I had a chemical pregnancy in December 2010.  I know it takes women up to a year to conceive (or longer), but do you think the year starts over after a mc/cp?  We have been trying since April 2010, so we have been trying for a little over a year...but do you think it starts over since I technically got pregnant in November? 

Thanks!  Just curious if I should be freaking out yet. :) 

Re: One year mark...

  • I wondered this too and I inferred from my doctor that it's after mc/cp.  In his words, I have been "successful" getting pregnant, just not staying pregnant.  I wish it was when you start trying.

    Maybe someone else has an different idea.

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    Adopted our furbaby Kona ~ January 17, 2010
    Trying to grow our family ~ June 2010

    1st BFP 7.6.10 ~ EDD 3.15.11 ~ mmc 8.6.10 ~ d&c 8.11.10
    2nd BFP 11.4.10 ~ EDD 7.15.11 ~ HB 6w3d ~ No HB 7w ~ mmc 12.8.10 ~ d&c 12.9.10
    3rd BFP 7.12.11 ~ EDD 3.22.12 ~ HB 6w5d 124 bpm ~ Team Green ~ 
    SHE STUCK!
    4th BFP 6.20.13 ~ EDD 3.1.14 ~ HB 7w5d 153 bpm ~ A/S revealed due date possibly 2.23
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  • I do not know the exact rule, but I have heard most doctors will agree that only a healthy pregnancy counts.

    Good luck to you!


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
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    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

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  • I'm not sure. I definitely wouldn't be freaking out yet! I know for me, I reached the one year mark of TTC with 4 losses under my belt...clearly I don't have a problem getting pg...it's just staying pg. I got referred to an RE for testing after the 4th loss...how long I had been trying seemed irrelevant in my case.

     Good luck to you!

    Married 9/19/09
    BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
    BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
    BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
    BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
    BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
    Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
    BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
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