Feeling sorry for myself today, but I promised myself I would vent one more time and then get over it so here goes:
My job is crazy, I am a new manager with tons of new responsibilities. Stress.
I have plancenta previa which is not a huge deal right NOW, but my husband and I can't have sex. Stress, because that is usually a stress reliever for me!
I would like to go and have a bottle of wine with my friends, and that's just been bothering me lately that I can't enjoy a nice cocktail. Less time out with friends, Stress.
I am just feeling old, not fun, tired, and so over it. And I am only 20 weeks pregnant!
I don't want to hear I should be happy and grateful- I have a child, I know that she is the light of my life, and that this one will be, too. I am just having a moment. Ok. Over it!
Re: Feeling sorry for myself
I don't understand why people don't just let us have a $itch fest every now and then. Even though we are pregnant and are beyond thrilled to be having a little one, doesn't mean we don't miss doing/drinking/eating the things we did before.
Oh what I would do for a bottle of red wine right now... or even a Miller Lite. More power to you!!
im sorry you are having a bad day if it makes you feel any better i gained 10lbs this past month! LOL!
but i know what you mean about wanting a drink and a little relaxation. my go to relaxation these days is turning off the lights in the bathroom, lighting a few candles and taking a long shower...when i say long i mean until the hot warm runs out. lol! if i had a bathtub i would totally go that route!
This is my first, I'm 21 weeks pregnant, and I'm still adjusting to all that I've given up. I have a low-lying placenta so sex is off limits for me too.
I'm so sick of hearing "it will be worth it in the end". I know this... DH and I wouldn't have tried for a baby if we didn't think she is "worth it". Sometimes, it's nice to hear that someone else feels the same.