DD is 10 months as of the 27th =D she is the light of my life. In a complicated set of circumstances I knew I wanted her, she came and I second-guessed my own abilities to care for her, and then I realized I needed her as much as she needed me. We are best friends now. But is it possible for DH to have post-partum depression? I was a witch while pregnant. I regret every day that I wasn't happy in waiting for her. When she was a newborn I was a stickler for the rules and very anal. DH and SS are very laid back about their girl. She was a daddy's girl when I was learning to care for her. He's a great teacher, sometimes I over-nurture and under-teach or vice versa but he is always teaching and seldom nurturing so now she cries for mommy and it upsets him as well as other financial, social, and in-law issues. Is it possible for a man to have depression after baby arrives?