I posted about this name a few weeks ago, to get more MN suggestions... DH and I have agreed on a first name, Jude, but he really feels strongly about using his name as the middle name...David. My issue is that the d's run together, sounding like Ju-David if we say the names out loud together. DH doesn't care, and I really don't want to change the first name (I love Jude!)
My question is, how annoying do you think this will really be? I don't really want to go back to the drawing board looking for names, and I've still been stalking this board looking for ideas, but nothing else feels like it fits. What to do??!!
Re: Jude David
It's a great name! I wouldn't worry about the names maybe possibly running together. Honestly, the only time I hear my middle name is from...
1) My mom when she's "yelling" at me
2) My husband when he's "yelling" at me
3) My great-grandmother who referred to everyone by their first and middle name because she was an eccentric Georgia Peach
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I'm having a similar problem with David; the end sound runs into the beginning sound of our last name. I'm going to avoid using it as a first name for this reason, but considering it for a middle name. I really wish I could use it as a first name, even DH gave the okay, but hearing anyone say my kid's first and last name too quickly would drive me up the wall.
That being said, I think it works fine as a middle name with Jude and wouldn't stress out too much about it.
I think it's great! I wouldn't worry about that combo at all.
BTW, LOVE the name Jude - when I was still pg with Asher, we knew that the next boy in the family would be Jude. Don't know yet what we're having obviously, but if it's a boy, it's Jude!
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I think both names are great separately but they would bug me together and I wouldn't do it, but that's just me. I always say, with names, if you're asking the question then you probably already know the answer and I think it will bug you too. I vote for leaving JuDavid (kidding!) as an option but revisiting the name book.
What about having 2 middle names. Maybe he could be Jude Sebastian David or insert whatever other name works. That way your DH gets to use his name but you get a name that flows well.
Another option to consider would be using Daith? instead of David. Daith? (DAH-ee) is pretty much the Irish equivalent of David and I think even reducing the number of Ds in the name by 1 helps.
I'll join the minority and say that I don't care for Jude and David together. I think they run together. Frankly I really dislike Jude, but if you must have it, then I'd look for a different middle name.
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