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So it was too good to be true...

After over a year and a half, I thought I finally got pregnant, but I'm having a miscarriage again.

I had more spotting today, and it became more red than brown, so I decided to go to the ER.  I'm an RH negative, so either way I needed a rhogam shot.  They did an ultrasound, and they said I'm having a blighted ovum.  I was disappointed, but a part of me was ready for this bad news.  I've been there, done that.  It was just too good to be true. 

On Monday I'm going to consult with my doctor where to go from here. 

m/c - Dec 2005, DS - March 27, 2007, m/c - Oct 2009, DD - Feb 20, 2012

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  • I am so so so sorry.
    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
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    I'm so sorry.  Sending lots of T&Ps your way. (HUG)
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  • So, so sorry :(  Big ((hugs))
    TTC #1 May 2007
    M/C January 2008
    DS February 16th, 2009

    TTC #2 July 2010
    Diagnosed MFI
    IUI#1 w/ bravelle 5/12/11 -- 0% morph on day of IUI, but somehow BFP:
    Beta #1 38 at 12dpiui, Beta #2 85 at 14dpiui Beta #3 1100 at 19dpiui
    DD born December 28, 2011 at 34w6d

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  • Oh no!!!!! I am so, so sorry! I can't imagine how awful you must be feeling. Please know that you are in all of our thoughts during this tough time.
    Conceived DD after 15 cycles--- TTC #2 since 11/10---Me- Poor egg quality and supply---DH- Poor count and motility---2 rounds 75IU Follistim/IUI-BFN---5/12 150IU Follistim/IUI-Over-produced! Converted to IVF! 0 fertilized:( Rescue ICSI performed. 2 embryos transfered-BFN

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  • I am so sorry. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.

    TTC # 2 since June of 2010. 3 Failed IUIs. IVF #1 (EPP) June of 2011 14r, 9f, 1 t, c/p (4 frosties) IVF #2(EPP) 5 retreived, 0 fertilized. No transfer. IVF # 3 (EPP) 10r 5f, 2t = m/c at 6 weeks.

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  • Oh no!  I am so sorry!
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  • Thank you for your warm replies.

    This pregnancy was really unexpected, and we were going to the fertility specialist to begin with, so I think that's what we will do. 

    m/c - Dec 2005, DS - March 27, 2007, m/c - Oct 2009, DD - Feb 20, 2012

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  • I am so sorry for your loss!
    Alyssa born 6/14/05 at 8 lbs 2oz - Ashley born 3/27/10 at 6 lbs 13oz
    We had 2 years of IF trying to conceive #2 and one loss during that time. We are currently trying for #3! had another loss the end of June
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  • I'm so so sorry!!! :::HUGS::: Are you trying a local fertility specialist? I'm currently going to SIRM and have been very pleased!
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    4.2011 Began NaProTechnology
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  • oh no I am so so sorry :(



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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
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