Is It Over??

Aaron'sAlli

Since I have been accused of being negative I need some outside, impartial, opinions.

Yesterday at 7dp5dt I got a BFN on an FRER HPT and then I began bleeding with heavy cramping later that morning. Also, I began leaking a clear liquid from my breasts. (Sorry for the TMI) I called the RE and was told to drink lots of water and rest and to not stop support meds. They told me that I must still go for my beta on 6/23. They said that this could be implantation bleeding and cramping but that sounds like a load of crap to me. Who goes through 3 pads, 2 of them full, (Sorry- TMI again) with implantation bleeding?! Also, my FET was 6/14 so it does not sound at all conceivable that they have "floated around" for 7 days.

Personally I think they were just trying to get me to go for my beta since I, in a moment I am less than proud of, had a little adult tantrum in which I refused to go for a "pointless" beta. I am not as much of a witch as you might think based on my childish reaction, I was just hysterical and upset.

I am not bleeding at all this morning but I did test again this morning- 8dp5dt- and it was another BFN.

In your opinion, is this over? No puppies and sunshine please. If you really think it is over I would like your honest opinion. Thank you.      

 

naflmj

That plain old sucks! I would think you'd test positive by now...the bleeding and cramping along wouldn't be as big of a concern (I know ladies on here have had healthy pregnancies after that) if you had a BFP. 

KYRN

naflmj:

That plain old sucks! I would think you'd test positive by now...the bleeding and cramping along wouldn't be as big of a concern (I know ladies on here have had healthy pregnancies after that) if you had a BFP. 

I agree.  I would think you should be having a BFP by now if you were going to get one.  I'm sorry.

PhillySue

I get accused of being negative too.  Sorry to say I have to agree with th pps and that by 8dp5dt I would expect to see a positive.  So sorry

itsmevkb

No puppies and sunshine here, I don't think you're pregnant.  I'm so very sorry.

Cassian

I'm so sorry that you keep getting BFN's. It sucks all around. I think your body may be trying to get AF, but the support meds are interfering and that is why the bleeding stopped. Again, I'm sorry.

howleyshell

When I had negative pee sticks the AM of a beta draw I refused to go.

It's a stupid practice IMO.

I'm the patient.  I'm in charge.  I'm not paying for (nor having my insurance pay for) a pointless test. 

I'm sorry you're not getting 2 lines.

It does totally suck.

And I totally support your stance on not doing a beta draw.

If they've got a problem with it they need to reconsider how they manage their practice.  You've paid them plenty.  They can take a ding in the "obligatory negative beta" portion of their income spread sheet. 

dundasgirl

It doesn't sound likely that you are pregnant.  I am sorry too.