I sent the SAL mantras to my sister by email last night. I thought it would give her a better idea of what I'm going through. Since she has said a few times that we should not tell people "in case you m/c again" I thought she may get a little insight.
I think I really offended her. She sent an email back asking, why did I send this to her and did we need to talk. I just replied that I shared it because I was finding it helpful and thought she may be interested.
Ugh... did people in your life suffer from restrained joy about a pg post m/c?
Re: the mantras
Yes, I definitely have had people give a little less enthusiastic response this time around. It makes me sad, but I know I have lost that innocent happiness too, so how can I blame them?
I just wish that those fears and doubts never had to creep into anyone's mind. It would be nice just to be blissfully excited.