Pregnant after a Loss

the mantras

I sent the SAL mantras to my sister by email last night. I thought it would give her a better idea of what I'm going through. Since she has said a few times that we should not tell people "in case you m/c again" I thought she may get a little insight.

I think I really offended her. She sent an email back asking, why did I send this to her and did we need to talk. I just replied that I shared it because I was finding it helpful and thought she may be interested.

Ugh... did people in your life suffer from restrained joy about a pg post m/c?

bfp #1 - 8/17/2008, natural m/c 8/25/2008, EDD 4/21/2009 bfp #2 - 10/6/2008, hb stopped at 7 w 3 d, d&e on 11/7/2008, EDD 6/19/2009 bfp #3- 3/14/2009.... stick, baby, stick!!!! (14 dpo - hcg 188, 16 dpo - hcg 421, 24 dpo - hcg 14,760!, 4/2 healthy HB of 130 bpm, 4/16 HB of 178 bpm!) bfp #4- 2/2/2011, EDD 10/17/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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Re: the mantras

  • Yes, I definitely have had people give a little less enthusiastic response this time around. It makes me sad, but I know I have lost that innocent happiness too, so how can I blame them?

    I just wish that those fears and doubts never had to creep into anyone's mind.  It would be nice just to be blissfully excited.

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