Pregnant after a Loss

5 candles was too much

so we only lit one.  It was really hard.  I think we are not only remembering the losses, but affirming the fact we will not be trying for biological children.  I never thought I'd not have the experience of carrying to term. What the heck was the point of all these periods? Ugh.

That said, I can not imagine having different kids from the ones we have.  Does that make sense?

If anyone has anything for Isaac's memorial, or would like to go with us, just page me.  The church is about ten miles from our house. Much love, many thoughts and prayers for all our flames that went out too soon, Jill

Re: 5 candles was too much

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    But on a happier note, I didn't know you were adopting again. Congratulations! I haven't "seen" you in awhile as my nesting time is limited now, and Isa & Mario are getting so big!

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  • Hey, and I hope you are well.  How are you?  And yes, our final adoption is in play.  We hope to be out of the country finalizing at the end of 2009.  Much love, Jill

     I know what you mean about not having enough time to nest--it is getting harder!  But love to your family.

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