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My friends 14 yo daughter is pregnant!

lindaeverlylindaeverly member
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I just found that a friend of mine's 14 year old daughter is pregnant!!!!  I am still shaking my head!  She has been more than a handful lately and even ran away around Easter, but this is too much.  My friend has convinced her to put the baby up for adoption after she gives birth, so I'm hoping that she follows through because she is in no way shape or form ready or able to raise a child.  It just makes me sad that so many women who want a child so badly and could be terrific parents have trouble getting pregnant & so many kids are doing it so easily.  So sad!
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  • lmydogallylmydogally
    Tongue Tied  oh man, 14yrs?  ugh, I barely knew what sex was at 14.  So sad.
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  • lindaeverlylindaeverly member
    It is so scary how much more advanced kids are these days!  My niece is 12 & there are 3 girls in her class that are pregnant right now!!!!  It makes me want to lock her in the house until she's 21! 
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  • Mrs.McIrishMrs.McIrish member
    I just said in another post that fertility is wasted on the young! There is no way a 14yr old should be having a baby. How sad. Makes me shake my head why...

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  • Love2HopeLove2Hope

    imagelmydogally:
    Tongue Tied  oh man, 14yrs?  ugh, I barely knew what sex was at 14.  So sad.

    Amen to that!

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  • shyntrueshyntrue
    I had my first kiss (not even french) when I was 14....  Yikes!  I couldn't even imagine having sex at that age...
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  • areverearevere

    My neice is 14 and I'm terrified for her. She's a gorgeous girl and looks a lot older than she is. Grown men oogle her on the street. She's already been caught alone in the house with an older boy, and her dad went nuts.

    She came to visit us for a weekend by herself and I was struck by what a baby she still is. She's a sweet, goofy kid who just happens to look like a model. Thankfully, she's smart and has common sense. I hope it sees her through.

    There's no way a 14yo should have a child. It's tragic for all involved. I hope they find a great adoptive family.

    Me = 38, Husband = 31. TTC since 1/10. M/C at 8 wks 5/10. Started trying again 9/10. All tests normal: AMH/MIS, FSH, HSG, SA. Estradoil high. 6/20/11 - Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI#1=BFN. 7/17/11 - Clomid+IUI#2=BFN. 2 natural cycles = BFN. 10/6/11 - Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI#3=BFN. 10/31/11 - Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI#4 = BFN. 11/26/11 - Follistim+Ovidrel+IUI#5 = BFN. IVF#1 - Menopur+Follistim. 2 ET 5/11/12 = BFN.
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  • winidpuwinidpu
    My step-daughter is 13 and makes me cringe just thinking of it! Fertility is wasted on the young and makes me angry as well. Hopefully the parents and young mother to be do the right thing for this baby. So sad!
    TTC #1 since 2/10 Me 38 FSH 12.9 & AMH 0.16 DH 47, low sperm count due to meds. 07/11 We have sperm! 28 million, 70% motility, morphology 1% normal. 08/14/11 1st IUI unmedicated BFN. 09/11/11 2nd IUI w/ Femara + trigger BFN 10/14/11 trigger & Final IUI 10/16/11 BFN 10/21/11 Started acupuncture and loving it! 01/21 ET one embryo 6 cell grade C. Beta 02/02. BFN. Taking a much needed break. image
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  • calibride2005calibride2005 member

    Yah it sucks! It happens more than you think......I work for Medi-cal here in CA. I am learning not to be shocked every time I see a claim like that. Ugh!

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  • boymamacoboymamaco member

    Ugh, really? That poor girl. I hope she is able to get some help to get her through this emotionally. It will be so hard for her both now and for the rest of her life.

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  • Banana44Banana44 member

    I can't even fathom being pregnant at 14 - I didn't even have my period yet!!

    I hope that she makes the right decisions for the baby, and I am glad she was able to tell her Mom - kids trying to hide it can be tragic!

    And I do agree fertility is backwards!  So fertile so young, and so not when you are ready!

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