Ok long story short.... my sister wanted me as a bridesmaid in her wedding before I found out I was pregnant. Due to dress deadlines, I ended up with a regular dress instead of maternity. I found out I was pregnant and showed early! Needless to say the dress was a size 0 in a strange shade of green. She told me I could not get the maternity version of the dress, but had to get it altered. Well I was an A cup,24 inch waist before, by time of wedding was 38 C & 33 inch waist. It could not be altered so I couldn't be in the wedding.
To make matters worse she said she did not want my pregnancy to outshine her wedding ( I didn't want any spotlight!)
Then on top of that I have SEVERE gluten and dairy allergies (Celiac disease), she told me she is sick of food allergies and will not accomodate ( I am sister of the bride!)
A few weeks before wedding she said she changed her tune and told the people at the reception place that I had food allergies. I got to the reception and the lady said my sister had never mentioned it. I talked to my mother who said "JUST DON'T EAT!" Really? Tell a pregnant woman who sat in the heat all day at a wedding that she has nothing to eat the rest of the night. I ended up waiting until 9 pm after the wedding when my sweet hubby took me to Subway ( I got a salad!!) so I could eat. Oh and he kindly slid a plain baked potato towards me which was the ONLY item remotely safe at the reception.
Thank goodness to my hubby, but I am really mad at my sister. What should I do? Should I say something. ( Her wedding was this past Saturday).