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Why today sucks....(vent)

Normally I'm not big on venting, but today is just one of those days that calls for a pity party .

1. I opened FB to a PG announcement ...she is now as far along as I should  be now

2. DH and I got in multiple arguments over the weekend, very stressful, and none have easy solutions

3. Part of the argument resulted in DH insisting that I no longer temp, because of all the stress, I guess I don't necessarily disagree...

4. I have what, I guess you could call, my WTF appointment today which is stressful and I'm nervous about it and figuring out next steps

5. Then this morning's internal dilemma which is, I am having trouble knowing where I fit in on these boards. I like TTGP but I'm so far removed from the whole excitement of waiting for a natural first BFP. But, here, I feel like I've had two bad pregnancies and I'm not undergoing treatment yet and I don't know if you'd consider my situation infertility or not, maybe it is, I don't know. Then mc/pg loss just makes me sad, TTCAL is cool but it also makes me think about that stuff too much.

So, I guess, basically, I just want to hide in my house and never come out.

Thanks for listening :(     **sigh**

p.s. it is also my Monday after a long weekend, I'm sure that doesn't help!

TTC #1 Since December 2009
BFP #1 05/16/10 EDD 01/13/11 natural m/c 11w1d (unknown cause)
BFP #2 03/24/11 EDD 12/06/11 missed m/c D&C 10w (Triploidy xxx)
BFP #3 12/24/11 EDD 09/02/12 missed m/c D&C 10w4d (Triploidy xxx)
BFP #4 02/10/14 EDD 10/19/14  - Baby boy made his arrival 10/02/14!
BFP #5 05/08/15 EDD 01/19/16 C/P 05/14/15
BFP #6 06/05/15 EDD 02/18/16 *It's a GIRL!!*

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Re: Why today sucks....(vent)

  • katib77katib77 member

    Willimina, feel free to post here sweetie!  While you may not have any diagnosed infertility issues, you have been trying a long time and depending on what your doctor says in your WTF, you may have questions that we can help with.  Plus we're such a supportive group -  you won't have to deal with any drama and hopefully you don't find us too sad. 

    I'm sorry about your friend's FB post reminding you about your EDD and that you've been having fights with your DH.  I hope leaving the stress of temping behind you, it will help. 

    (((BIG HUGS)))


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  • Sorry to hear you are having such a rough day/weekend. 

    I stopped charting and tracking everything and I feel SO much better now.  Maybe you just need a temping break for a cycle to recoup.

    Good news about the appt is that you should walk out of there with a plan, which may calm your nerves.

    We would LOVE to have you!  If you like it here, this is where you belong!  ((hugs))

    Oh, I would like to go home and hide under the covers too!

    "When the world says, 'Give up,' Hope whispers, 'Try one more time.'" -Anonymous

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  • Sorry you are having such a hard time. ((hugs))

    Whether someone is having "trouble" trying to conceive is going to mean different things to different people and unless you are someone who is here complaining about how hard it is and how frustrated you are after only 3 months of trying, I think you will get support from the ladies here. You've been through a lot, and in my book that counts as "trouble." If you feel comfortable here, you are more than welcome to post here. 

    And FWIW, I stopped temping months ago because the stress was too much for me. It really has helped! :) 

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  • I personally, think you can post here and fit in.  You've been trying and have had 2 losses...so even without an official Dx, I dont' see a problem w/ you posting on 3T.

    I'm sorry you are having such a craptastic day ((big hugs)) I hope tomorrow is better for you, doll!

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  • I am so sorry you are having a bad day ((hugs)) I hope things get better soon!
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  • imagekatib77:

    Willimina, feel free to post here sweetie!  While you may not have any diagnosed infertility issues, you have been trying a long time and depending on what your doctor says in your WTF, you may have questions that we can help with.  Plus we're such a supportive group -  you won't have to deal with any drama and hopefully you don't find us too sad. 

    I'm sorry about your friend's FB post reminding you about your EDD and that you've been having fights with your DH.  I hope leaving the stress of temping behind you, it will help. 

    (((BIG HUGS)))

    Thank you :) I guess I've already been posting here, I like this group of ladies a lot. I suppose after my apt today I'll have a better understanding of where I belong. But even writing out a vent makes me feel better.

    TTC #1 Since December 2009
    BFP #1 05/16/10 EDD 01/13/11 natural m/c 11w1d (unknown cause)
    BFP #2 03/24/11 EDD 12/06/11 missed m/c D&C 10w (Triploidy xxx)
    BFP #3 12/24/11 EDD 09/02/12 missed m/c D&C 10w4d (Triploidy xxx)
    BFP #4 02/10/14 EDD 10/19/14  - Baby boy made his arrival 10/02/14!
    BFP #5 05/08/15 EDD 01/19/16 C/P 05/14/15
    BFP #6 06/05/15 EDD 02/18/16 *It's a GIRL!!*

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  • sending you tons of hugs.  I'm sorry you are having a rough day. 

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  • Thank you ladies, I definitely have always feel welcome here, I do post and have done a couple of intros.

    I guess sometimes I feel like I belong and sometimes I don't. But that, coupled with my other woes was just kind of weighing on my mind. I don't see myself leaving here anytime soon, so I'm glad it's ok  ((hugs back))

    TTC #1 Since December 2009
    BFP #1 05/16/10 EDD 01/13/11 natural m/c 11w1d (unknown cause)
    BFP #2 03/24/11 EDD 12/06/11 missed m/c D&C 10w (Triploidy xxx)
    BFP #3 12/24/11 EDD 09/02/12 missed m/c D&C 10w4d (Triploidy xxx)
    BFP #4 02/10/14 EDD 10/19/14  - Baby boy made his arrival 10/02/14!
    BFP #5 05/08/15 EDD 01/19/16 C/P 05/14/15
    BFP #6 06/05/15 EDD 02/18/16 *It's a GIRL!!*

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