Whenever we go anywhere together DH insists on sitting in the back with DD and I have to drive, which is fine. But he doesn't even try to keep her awake on the way home in the morning before nap. Today she fell asleep and instead of asking me whether to wake her, he just pulled her out of the car seat and plopped her on the driveway. So of course she got upset, cried and would not go back to sleep and now the whole day is a no nap day (yes I tried again for about 40 minutes later on and she still didn't go down) which normally is not a huge deal but I'm pretty sick and tired and I need a nap. So instead DH is taking a nap (because he got up with her this am and then let me sleep a whole extra hour) and I'm sitting her with crankypants. Very very irritated.
I know I sound like a real whiner but it's just a repeated pattern of him doing whatever he wants to do without even discussing it with me.