DH and I saw a counselor yesterday afternoon.....Eventhough DH had told them WHY we needed to see a counselor (2 m/c this year) when he called to make the appt. she thought we were there for marriage counseling. I could tell by the questions she asked us...She didn't realize until both of us had answered her "why do you think you need counseling? why are you here?" questions that we don't have any marriage issues YET. We are seeking help in learning to deal with what we've been through and what we might have to face with the loss of our little babies. I guess I was pretty frustrated when we left because I thought she would have been informed about our situation before she wasted a whole session asking us the wrong questions. But I'm sure it was beneficial to her to hear about our marriage and how we communicate and things like that...I just wish we would have gotten down to questions about this particular issue and how we are dealing with it. Am I missing something here? What can I expect next week?