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dh and I just signed up to receive donor embryos!

its a loooong wait list but who knows maybe we will get lucky! there are 57 families waiting. we are interested in multi-ethnic embryos since our ds is aa.. we want to keep diversity in the family!

its an exciting first step to what may be a long road

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TTC since 2005
missed miscarriage nov 2006- 4 failed clomid cycles-
3 failed femara iui cycles-
moving on to IVF oct 2011
ER nov. 7th
tansfered 2 blasts on 11/10
lots of +hpt!!
beta #1 on 11/21= 50.4
beta #2 on11/23= 90.8
another miscarriage 12/23
moving on to Round 2 of IVF with an auto immune dx
ER 4/23-retrieved 12 eggs
ET 4/28 3 transfered
Beta #1- 356
Beta #2- 870

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Re: dh and I just signed up to receive donor embryos!

  • That's exciting! 

    (how did you find out about this?) 

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  • wille2bwille2b member
    We called local REs offices and they told us about a main storage place for embryos in our area. then they put us on a list
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    TTC since 2005
    missed miscarriage nov 2006- 4 failed clomid cycles-
    3 failed femara iui cycles-
    moving on to IVF oct 2011
    ER nov. 7th
    tansfered 2 blasts on 11/10
    lots of +hpt!!
    beta #1 on 11/21= 50.4
    beta #2 on11/23= 90.8
    another miscarriage 12/23
    moving on to Round 2 of IVF with an auto immune dx
    ER 4/23-retrieved 12 eggs
    ET 4/28 3 transfered
    Beta #1- 356
    Beta #2- 870

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
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  • Forward movement!!!

    Yes

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  • That is exciting! I'm so interested in your journey! We started to look into it, but i got so overwhelmed.
  • Good Luck!  I would have done this in a heart beat but DH thought it was weird and now I'm too old.  I hope it works out for you!
    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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  • I heart donor embryos ;)

    I SOOO wish more people would donate.  Good luck sweetie!!

  • I hope you move right up that list really quickly!  Congrats on taking the step!
    TTC #1 since 12/07 SA 9/08=borderline normal HSG 1/09 found R tube blocked Multiple IUIs both with oral and injectible drugs from 2/09-2/11 Started domestic adoption process in 5/10, homestudy complete 9/10 Failed adoption after home with baby for 2 weeks 11/10 Blessed through the miracle of private adoption with a son, born 6/6/11 (his grandma's bday) 7lbs 9oz 20.5 inches long! So worth the wait!
  • Girl, you better e-mail me back!

    I would love to do this, but we're not good candidates because of my dumb uterus.

  • wille2bwille2b member
    imageHannaB:

    Girl, you better e-mail me back!

    I would love to do this, but we're not good candidates because of my dumb uterus.

    i will email you the info!!

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    TTC since 2005
    missed miscarriage nov 2006- 4 failed clomid cycles-
    3 failed femara iui cycles-
    moving on to IVF oct 2011
    ER nov. 7th
    tansfered 2 blasts on 11/10
    lots of +hpt!!
    beta #1 on 11/21= 50.4
    beta #2 on11/23= 90.8
    another miscarriage 12/23
    moving on to Round 2 of IVF with an auto immune dx
    ER 4/23-retrieved 12 eggs
    ET 4/28 3 transfered
    Beta #1- 356
    Beta #2- 870

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • Good luck!!!

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • That is awesome we looked into it at our last duty station through our RE however there weren't any AA candidates. We may look into it again now that we are in another area and now more open to any ethnic group.
  • I really wish more people would elect to donate embryos over having them destroyed or used for research. The only way I was ok with trying IVF was knowing that if we had unused embryos they would go to another couple who also desperately wanted to parent. Sadly I didn't produce enough eggs to get myself pregnant much less have the ability to help someone else. GL!!
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    b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
    IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
    b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
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    Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
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  • So exciting!
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  • As someone who adopted six embryos, I too wish more people would donate their remaining embryo's.  Wishing you all the luck in the world!
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    3 IUI's, 2 IVF's , 1 FET , 1 IVF w/ Gestational Carrier, and 1 FET using adopted embryo's = ALL BFNs
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  • This is a REALLY dumb question but my DH and I have three frozen 5 day embryos (I'm preggo with the other two).  Anyways if all goes well we have talked about adopted them out and really have NO info on doing that.  Seeing as how we have an adopted DD we are totally comfortable doing it, just wasn't sure what the adopted parents have to go thru to get them and what we do as embryo first parents to get them on the list to be adopted?!?!?!  Do we choose the parents or does the clinic?  I really have NO idea how it works.  I really hope you guys get picked soon!  Thinking of you sweetie!

    "I have four children. Two are adopted. I forget which two. -Bob Constantine

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