My DH is having a tough time with this deployment. He is an absolute mess. I assume it is mainly because this is the first deployment that we have a baby. It is beyond a funk. He's on a ship with alot of time to think and think. And no he won't go get help, he is worried about it going in his service record and being on meds would conflict with his actual job.
He told me today I should just leave him... which is beyond silly. I feel so helpless all I can do is reassure him and I know I need to really focus on me and the baby since I am having a hard time myself. He has no idea of me having a hard time. When I talk to him or e-mail him I keep it light, I know the drill and I don't burden him with home issues especially while on deployment.
I was hoping there were some ideas I could recommend to help him. Reading materials...anything?