Has this happened to you?

golfbride11

You temp, chart and use your OPKs . . . you have found your perfect fertile window BUT. . . DH is too tired?  

I get it, he's 39 and doesn't love the idea of baby-making sex nearly as much as the "just for fun" sex but come on. . . I'm 40!  We have a 20 month old, so that doesn't help either but it's so hard to feel like I just sat and watched a perfectly good month go by.

Please tell me I'm not alone. . . in the lame DH department.   

HauntGirl23

I run into that problem sometimes... and I don't think age has anything to do with it because my husband is 34... he just likes to be lazy. 

Mrs.McIrish

Yup.  Last month, we were told to have sex the night of the IUI. Did that happen? Nope.. I had to force it this time!

golfbride11

Thank you for sharing.  I'm sorry you have lame DHs . . . but I'm glad I'm not alone.  

klm195

Oh you aren't alone!  (Glad to see I'm not the only one with a hubby younger than me).  Some weeks he's all over me for it every night.  Other weeks if I don't start something - we just don't do anything.  I've yet to get a smiley face from the OPK this month, but when I do - he best be rested up because it IS going to happen!!

Good luck!

mkwt

Nope you not alone, my DH is doing the same thing to me this week!

I also quite telling DH when it was baby making time, it stressed him out and he has a tendancy to get hmm how should i say it....too anixous to perform. 

golfbride11

mkwt:

Nope you not alone, my DH is doing the same thing to me this week!

I also quite telling DH when it was baby making time, it stressed him out and he has a tendancy to get hmm how should i say it....too anixous to perform. 

I quit telling DH too but then if he wasn't up for sex (no pun intended) and we missed our time, he'd say, "Well you have to tell me so I can get my game face on."  

AngieK3

Yep, same thing with my DH and he's 32.  I make him take a nap in the afternoon so he'll be ready to go at bedtime.