I'm still scared... DD was born 7/19 and we tried a couple weeks ago and it was a big fat FAIL (partly due to buying the wrong lube, and partly due to my fear. haha) I'm just working up the nerve now to even attempt it again.
I had 3rd degree tearing and dd was born June 13 and I had to wait until the middle of August. It did not hurt and we did not use KY Jelly or anything.
waited about 4 1/2 weeks i think and it didn't hurt - i was so scared it would. have dh wear a condom and be very slow if you do decide to. i had very minor tearing - required only one stitch and i felt fine and interested in sex so i figured it was okay. i say condom due to risk of infection so just be careful and go slow.
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ha 2 weeks exactlly and then again last night. and last night it was seriusly the best sex ive ever had in my life so most likely again tonight i hope
I had DD vag. and but didnt tear at all. the first time we has sex it hurt a little bit but not bad enough to stop and last night didnt hurt at all. It does really hurt me to be on my stomach for some reason that hurts wayy worse. GL
Re: let's talk about s.e.x.
6 weeks.
Used lots of lube.
Fabulousness.
aokiedokie
We had sex at 7wks pp. It was amazing!
4 weeks. It hurt for the first few seconds. But then it was great.
ha 2 weeks exactlly and then again last night. and last night it was seriusly the best sex ive ever had in my life
so most likely again tonight i hope 
I had DD vag. and but didnt tear at all. the first time we has sex it hurt a little bit but not bad enough to stop and last night didnt hurt at all. It does really hurt me to be on my stomach for some reason that hurts wayy worse. GL