Secondary IF

And I am back.

I was supposed to be 13 wks. and I only had a gestational sac measuring 6 wks.  So m/c #3 they are considering a blighted ovum. So now we are back to the drawing board.  My RE wants me to just keep going as soon as I get AF and my OB is saying no way wait three months.  SO who knows what is going to happen. 
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Re: And I am back.

  • Oh I am so sorry for your loss, and I sincerely hope the next baby is one you take home.

    Personally, my experience is that OB's are way too slow and not nearly as proactive or aggressive as you need to be with infertility.  I'd go with what your RE says; s/he is the one who specialized specifically in this matter. 

    DS Feb 2011
    ...no thanks to my PCOS (Dx 2006,though should've been dx during maybe the Clinton years).

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  • I'm so sorry
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. I hope your stay here is short.
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    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

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  • i am so so sorry :(  my heart is breaking for you..(((hugs)))
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I wish you luck with your decision on next steps - and I hope you won't have to be here long!  (Although it's always nice to get updates from 2IF successes)  I hope that this board can help you through to your next BFP.  =-)

    (HUG) 

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  • Sorry for your loss (again :( )  I'd listen to my RE to try again sooner if you are emotionally ready for it.   ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  I agree with PP that OBs are not as proactive as REs.  Thinking of you.
  • I am very sorry for your loss. But like PPs, I would also say to listen to the RE. If you are emotionally up for it and your RE says it's ok, why not just keep going? Good luck in whatever you decide to do and hopefully you won't be here for long.
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  • Oh sweetie...I am so sorry for your loss.  {{{HUGS}}}
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  • I'm so so sorry for your loss.  I hope you don't have to stay here too long.  I hope your RE has a plan to get you your sticky BFP!  ((HUGS))
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  That is hard to take at 13 weeks.  Good luck whatever you decide to do next.
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  • I'm so sorry..  Big Hugs!!  Maybe you can compromise and wait 1 cycle.  That's what I did with my MC that was almost 11 weeks.  
    10/17/2009 - Our Miracle came 10 weeks early. IF,2 MC and 1 Preemie we have our miracle.. Baby Hope 10 weeks 5days was taken from us on Dec 18, 2007. Forever with us and Forever missed. Triplets Lost baby A @ weeks, Lost Baby B at 6 weeks and lost baby Abigail at 14 weeks when she was born to little for this life..... Forever with us ....
  • Ugh!  I am so sorry for your loss.  That is just horrible to have to go through when you were already at 13 weeks.  I think I would listen to the RE because in my experience they know a little more than the ob about how to get pregnant when dealing with infertility. 
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